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So I have ALWAYS been attracted to woman. Since I was a little girl. If I were to watch porn I would always prefer girl on girl. I always had the want to have sex with a woman but never thought I would actually take that step.
Well Saturday night that changed. So this girl I met a few weeks ago came over my house Friday night with this guy she was messing around with. They slept in the living room and I didnt give it a second thought. Well the next day me and the girl was talking her name is "B" and she out of no where says I want to have sex with you. Im like ummmm. Shes like Ive never done it before and I just want to do it. So Im like uhhhhh. Lol and the conversation got dropped.
B is exactly the type of girl Im attracted to. Physically at least. I couldnt picture anything better. She's definitly a 10.
Well that night after a few drinks we got it on.
Ok so everyone pretty much knew what happened and I kept joking around calling her my girlfriend. Well apparently she took it seriously. So the next night we are laying in bed and she says "if your supposed to be my girlfriend why dont you kiss me goodnight. Umm awkward. So I just gave her a kiss and let it go.
For some reason Im just not into it. On paper shes everything I would want in agirl but when she texts me I get annoyed. I was annoyed that she spent the entire weekend at my house and I couldnt come up with a reason for her to leave.
Then on Sunday night we got into it a bit. She was laying in bed asleep and I was laying next to her and my friend "M" (reference other thread I just made) was at the foot of the bed and our firend "D" was sitting in a chair. Well "M" and I have been messing around and B knew it before I did anything with her. I DID NOT KNOW that I was not allowed to mess with guys. I figured ok yeah I know I cant mess with another girl but Im not "gay" so why would I cut off guys? Well anyways so M says I wanna have sex so Im trying to make excuses (ive never said no to him before) and Im like I cant B is right here asleep. And apparently shes not asleep and she gets mad and says "well I can go downstairs" and we proceed to argue.
I didnt mean to hurt her feelings. I just didnt know it was that serious. Now shes texting me and calling me all the time and I just dont know what to do. I dont think I will have sex with another girl unless theres a guy involved too. This is just crazy.
You had sex with a girl. You're not gay, but say she's everything you want in a girl on paper? You're with a guy who treats you like crap.. You're wanting sex with your BF, while the girl you had sex with is in bed sleeping, but not sleeping.. She's mad at you, and is texting you..
My head is spinning... Who cares what she thinks... Stay with the guy who treats you like crap....
Find someone who's going to treat you with respect. Build up your self-esteem and find yourself a winner...
You had sex with a girl. You're not gay, but say she's everything you want in a girl on paper? You're with a guy who treats you like crap.. You're wanting sex with your BF, while the girl you had sex with is in bed sleeping, but not sleeping.. She's mad at you, and is texting you..
My head is spinning... Who cares what she thinks... Stay with the guy who treats you like crap....
Find someone who's going to treat you with respect. Build up your self-esteem and find yourself a winner...
Best of Luck!
When I say im not gay I mean I prefer men over woman. It was my first experiance with a woman. I did WANT to have sex witht he guy but I told him no. She got mad because I used her as an excuse and she said she could tell I wanted to mess with him.
Im def not messing with M anymore and I really dont want to mess with B anymore either.
The point of this thread is how do I let her know that I just wasnt that in to it without hurting her feelings.
Just tell her, you're not interested, it's something you're just not comfortable with. And You're sorry, it's just not going to happen... Walk away and end it at that... What more can you do and say???
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Very weird situation going on.
So I have ALWAYS been attracted to woman. Since I was a little girl. If I were to watch porn I would always prefer girl on girl. I always had the want to have sex with a woman but never thought I would actually take that step.
Well Saturday night that changed. So this girl I met a few weeks ago came over my house Friday night with this guy she was messing around with. They slept in the living room and I didnt give it a second thought. Well the next day me and the girl was talking her name is "B" and she out of no where says I want to have sex with you. Im like ummmm. Shes like Ive never done it before and I just want to do it. So Im like uhhhhh. Lol and the conversation got dropped.
B is exactly the type of girl Im attracted to. Physically at least. I couldnt picture anything better. She's definitly a 10.
Well that night after a few drinks we got it on.
Ok so everyone pretty much knew what happened and I kept joking around calling her my girlfriend. Well apparently she took it seriously. So the next night we are laying in bed and she says "if your supposed to be my girlfriend why dont you kiss me goodnight. Umm awkward. So I just gave her a kiss and let it go.
For some reason Im just not into it. On paper shes everything I would want in agirl but when she texts me I get annoyed. I was annoyed that she spent the entire weekend at my house and I couldnt come up with a reason for her to leave.
Then on Sunday night we got into it a bit. She was laying in bed asleep and I was laying next to her and my friend "M" (reference other thread I just made) was at the foot of the bed and our firend "D" was sitting in a chair. Well "M" and I have been messing around and B knew it before I did anything with her. I DID NOT KNOW that I was not allowed to mess with guys. I figured ok yeah I know I cant mess with another girl but Im not "gay" so why would I cut off guys? Well anyways so M says I wanna have sex so Im trying to make excuses (ive never said no to him before) and Im like I cant B is right here asleep. And apparently shes not asleep and she gets mad and says "well I can go downstairs" and we proceed to argue.
I didnt mean to hurt her feelings. I just didnt know it was that serious. Now shes texting me and calling me all the time and I just dont know what to do. I dont think I will have sex with another girl unless theres a guy involved too. This is just crazy.
So how do I tell her im just not into it?
Is it hot in here?
Seriously, I'm reduced to grunting.
Also, now you know why men want their "guy time" away from women.
You probably aren't going to be able to blow her off without hurting her feelings.
So I think honesty is the best route: "Look, I find you very attractive and I'd always been curious about sleeping with a woman, but now that I've done it I don't think it's really the way I want to go. I'm sorry if you took the "girlfriend" comment seriously, I really didn't mean anything by it."
She'll probably be mad as hell, but she'll get over it. Better than dragging it on and on and really messing with her.
One other suggestion: Find some normal people to hang around with, it will make your life a lot easier.
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