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Interest shown leading up to the date? Now I have a date scheduled tomorrow with this girl and the last time we talked was Tuesday. I called last night and she didn't pick up and so far I heard nothing tonight. Now since I;m expected to pay am I supposed to reach her to out again when she didn't pick up the last call?
I mean if I;m going to spend money on someone shouldn't I feel that she is looking for to meeting me rather than just going out because it's just something to do?
I will not call or text her tomorrow if I hear nothing tonight. I;m already in the process of making other plans.
Guys what do you think of this?
what's wrong with you. Leave her a msg that you want to cofirm the date/time and to be sure you won't be wearing the same dress, etc. No response? Take the hint...their ain't gonna be any date...tomorrow or the next day. No need for you to even show up.
Koale
The whole point of a cafe "date" is as a screen before a real date with someone you haven't met before or only have met for a few minutes. That way, if one of you is really not feeling it you can just kill it there without being impolite. Eating a meal at a cafe isn't here or there: it's an early cafe date so it feels like a screening, but it's a meal so it feels like a date. Most girls will just be confused and put off by the contradiction.
Instead, either go on a quick cafe meeting as a just-in-case and then go elsewhere from there (have a few ideas planned beforehand) if it's working well, or just skip the meet-for-coffee-first step altogether. If you want to be all SCIENCE about it, switching venues in rapid succession is a really effective way to hook someone as well.......one long date at 3-4 places ends up feeling like you've been dating each-other several times already before the night is out.
Originally Posted by PeachyMJ There's no way in hell you could ever line up 2 dates for the same night. It takes you YEARS to get one little nibble for one date in a matter of months. I will do it next Saturday................JUST FOR YOU
I spent $50 or $60 on a "first date" and that was over twenty years ago.
That's probably because you met her in public and not ONLINE. So you already knew what to expect because you got her number in public. Me on the otherhand go to meet and greet to see how we click
She gets financial benefits with friendship attached
I can sexual benefits with friendship attached
If you give her money and she gives you whatever fetish act, THAT is prostitution and she is a hooker.
NORMAL dates are not a quid pro quo situation.
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