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Old 12-11-2014, 12:35 PM
 
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Ugh. My husband is addicted to nude pics and porn too. If you read my first response to this. I said I am not bovvered at first but wow for some reason, looking at his internet history today. When he knows I am mad at him for something he did, guess what he did first thing he opens his PC? Yeah naked pics.

Now he is looking at that infamous fappening pics that one that got famous coz of massive celeb hack pics . UGH!!!

It actually is starting to bother me. And I also don't know why he lies. Do men really think we are THAT stupid? Like really? Wow!!

I don't understand why guys still feel the need to look at this trash pics when they have a 'live' one at home, LOL. I mean really.

Maybe I can understand with him since he has been alone for along time almost 2 decades, after his 1st divorce.

But really, why lie? Honestly the one that looks MORE like an idiot is these guys including my husband.

I know one day, I will just tell him pointblank since he is too stupid to know that I KNOW he is lying to my face and just face the fact he is sick in the head like all guys that 'feel the need' to look at this garbage online EVERY freaking day they have a chance to.

Wow. Pathetic losers. Yes and that's including my idiot husband!

Honestly, I really believe this should really be classified LEGALLY as a sex crime!! I can't believe after all that attention coz of the recent celeb nude hack telling EVERYONE it is a sex crime, these sickos including my husband doesn't give a sh-it, and continues to still look at this trash!
Never mind that contempt such as the kind displayed in your calling him an idiot on a message board full of strangers would be hard to hide in a marriage, didn't you say in another thread that you only have sex with him once a week and that you won't even go near him during that time of the month, which amounts to what, sex three times a month?

And you wonder why he looks at porn?

Really?

 
Old 12-11-2014, 12:39 PM
 
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But he deleted the profiles now he jus watches porn and he tries to hide it but I can hear the sound of him stroking and I feel the bed bouncing
And you, in all your loving grace and kindness as his wife, just lay beside him instead of joining in.

Good grief, woman. If your husband is whacking it in bed right next to you, you need to GET ON HIM.
 
Old 12-11-2014, 12:47 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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And you, in all your loving grace and kindness as his wife, just lay beside him instead of joining in.

Good grief, woman. If your husband is whacking it in bed right next to you, you need to GET ON HIM.
This, but it's also pretty bad form for him to be porning it up in bed next to his "sleeping" wife.
 
Old 12-11-2014, 02:21 PM
 
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This, but it's also pretty bad form for him to be porning it up in bed next to his "sleeping" wife.
Maybe. It could be passive-aggressive b.s. But I would think a guy would have to be pretty desperate for some action to resort to that. Or else just be past he point of giving a crap about his wife's feelings after being shut out for so long.

I mean, look at how the women who come here complaining about porn sound. They're all disgusted, angry, threatened, and jealous of what basically amounts to pixels on a screen. I've never known a woman who had a healthy marriage who complained about porn. Seems like whenever women get on here like this, the gripe about porn is just a symptom of some greater issue, like an overall pattern of power struggles in the relationship or opposing views on sex and sexuality.

And quite frankly, all of this should be ironed out before one gets married.
 
Old 12-11-2014, 02:52 PM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Men like to look at naked women. There's nothing more to it. Don't take it personally.
 
Old 12-11-2014, 03:08 PM
 
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Never mind that contempt such as the kind displayed in your calling him an idiot on a message board full of strangers would be hard to hide in a marriage, didn't you say in another thread that you only have sex with him once a week and that you won't even go near him during that time of the month, which amounts to what, sex three times a month?

And you wonder why he looks at porn?

Really?
Hey. So, our marriage is not perfect but for the most part, I am content. I actually am more concerned that his bro lives with us now and his room is next to us... ugh. The last time we did it he was in the house.

I actually can't believe his loser bro lives with us though. My husband is really a soft heart like that. He does not want his loser bro to be homeless.

He smokes too, his bro. So I woke up biatching to my husband that I freaking hate that freaking smoke smell!!!! Ugh!!! And we had a fight today, me and my husband. I left. Then it's actually good that he called me to say sorry while he is at work.

Like I said, I go back and forth sometimes I'm bothered, mostly I'm not coz he usually looks at them when I'm in my period.

Men are pigs. At least my husband is thinking I don't know that he is.

Oh well, Such is life.

Oh and so sex 3 times a month is pitiful? LOL. Ok. Guess I'm fortunate that sex is not the be all and end all on my marriage.

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Old 12-11-2014, 03:42 PM
 
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Porn is the biggest addiction i have ever dealt with. Usually with me, the older i get, the less I "use that habit" Not in porn's case.
 
Old 12-13-2014, 12:45 PM
 
Location: Mckinney
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Oh and so sex 3 times a month is pitiful? LOL. Ok. Guess I'm fortunate that sex is not the be all and end all on my marriage.
Sex is very important. Its the glue of the relationship. Its not just sex but the intimacy that goes with it. I promise sex 3 times a month is not adequate for most men(or women). I would question yourself about why you are not interested in more sex.
 
Old 12-13-2014, 01:57 PM
 
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Sex is very important. Its the glue of the relationship. Its not just sex but the intimacy that goes with it. I promise sex 3 times a month is not adequate for most men(or women). I would question yourself about why you are not interested in more sex.
She's not a member anymore. But yep. When a relationship of mine went from us seeing each other twice a week to once a week, it started to feel like, "Why bother being in a committed relationship at all?" Going 5 or 6 days at a stretch without it was a big problem for me. I'd rather not deal with it at all then, as a taste is worse than none at all for me. And yes, it broke some bonds. Just didn't feel close to him anymore.

Now I won't commit to someone unless we're getting busy at LEAST twice a week, preferably a couple of times on the weekend and then at least once more during the week.
 
Old 12-13-2014, 02:12 PM
 
Location: La Jolla, CA
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But he deleted the profiles now he jus watches porn and he tries to hide it but I can hear the sound of him stroking and I feel the bed bouncing
I'm just saying, most people I know would probably take advantage of that opportunity, not lie there and feel the bed bounce.
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