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This is 100% true. I'm known as a guy that has ridiculous success with women. I'm currently dating a very hot girl that rejected many of the good looking guys around my neighborhood. They look at me as almost god-like for dating her. What they don't realize is that she rejected me too...many times...and it took me months to get her.
My game is tight. But a few years ago, I was getting rejected all the time. I didn't get laid for an entire year after college. I was just going out 3-4 nights a week in grad school and getting brutally rejected. I must have made thousands of approaches in my life.
I still go out and rejected at least 10 times every night. You definitely have to put in the work (years of work) to get the results.
Captain Jack
why would u go after a girl that rejected u multiple times? do you have no self respect for yourself?
When I say all good men are taken, Im referring to men who don't treat women like meat and men who have their priorities straight.
As I get older, the good men are disappearing. Of course, I spent my early 20s in a bad relationship and now that I'm 'back on the market' it seems to be very difficult to find an intelligent, happy man who also likes me. I think that's the biggest issue for me at least, they love hanging out with me but there aren't any romantic feelings on their end. It's just one bummer after another, but you gotta just keep truckin
What type of energy? Positive energy? Its been a while that ive heard someone mention this.
Def positive of course. But anyone could facade that. It's moreso a compatible energy. Once someone has experienced what they like and don't like, you can almost always pick up on the "authentic" version of what you like, even if you don't quite know why. It's exactly what I mean by "water attracts its on level". When you are authentic, genuine, mature, confident..you recognize it in others because hell you live by it. Something about picking up on this that I can't explain. Other things may not be compatible but that energy I'm rarely wrong on.
But not every man is going to be good with the ladies.
The interesting thing to note is that the men that are "good with the ladies" are probably not as good as you think. They probably got shot down almost as much as the "losers" at one point or another. I'd say that some of the "good" ones know who to approach and who to leave alone (intuitively, I guess).
For those of you who are having either bad luck or no luck with women (or both). you may have to take a good hard look at yourself. Perhaps you are out of shape (not necessarily fat, but that is a completely different topic). Maybe you have bad skin. Perhaps you don't smell that good. (How you smell can make a big difference). It could be your fashion sense (A lot of us dudes do not know how to dress) Or like FromTN2A2 said, it could be your energy.
There is a lot that goes on subconsciously. One of the things that you can look at is your body language. Most of what you are saying, is not coming from your mouth.
In other words, try to find your problem and fix it. You'd be amazed at how things change. I've had experiences where women who blew me off all of a sudden wanted to be my everything. (I lost a bit of weight and it really brought out the good aspects of my face, LOL!!)
I don't think this was necessary. Then again, wouldn't it be too easy for women if all of those loser-type guys out there just dropped dead because they won't be of use to you or society?
Yes, but damn op keeps foiling my plot and reclaiming this thread.
Damn him!
Captain Jack
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