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I've really lost most of my confidence lately. And there's something that's always
on my mind.
It feels weird asking but i really would like to know if I'm good looking
I'm 21 years old and to be honest, for some reason I'm not happy with how i look.
I would really like the satisfaction of knowing. Sure everyone else would too!
Don't think i'm weird or anything lol please be honest and thanks!
p.s this is not a troll i really would like to know.
I'm a straight guy so I'm not really gonna comment on if I find you attractive rofl, but I don't think you should have any problems picking up women. One thing that I would want to say though, is that if you're having trouble picking up women you see.. it's probably your clothes. You're going to have a really hard time picking up decent women wearing South Pole and Ecko. Just somethin to think about.
The worst thing you can do if you're having trouble with women is to start thinking poorly of yourself. Have a good self image and women won't reject you.
I can't really get past the huge Phat shirt and ridiculously baggy pants. Very unattractive right from the start. Change your wardrobe, shave the chin, and take another picture.
I'm a guy and I will tell you right now: drop the weight. Seriously. I've lost about 50 lbs this summer and I cannot tell you how better I feel AND look AND the amount of female attention I'm getting now has gone through the roof. Do it.
Oh, and definitely the clothes. Scrap what you have on and get some GOOD clothes but wait until you have lost the weight... otherwise you'll be spending more time at the shops than anything else.
I'm not going to answer the question but I wanted to tell you that you will never be attractive to every women. Some will like you as you are, others will never like you no matter how much you change your clothes or lose weight or shave or grow a beard or whatever. We can never be everything to everyone.
You have received some great suggestions but ultimately you need to feel comfortable in your own skin, because that's what gives you confidence. And most people enjoy the company of a confident but not arrogant person, man or woman.
Lose some weight. Some guys can carry it off just fine, but it's not working for you. Plus you're only 21 and you're already heavy. That's not a good sign, if only for your health. Quality women aren't necessarily looking for someone who's skinny, but they are looking for someone who doesn't appear to be waiting for Type 2 diabetes to hit.
And please for the love of all that's holy CHANGE YOUR WARDROBE. (After you've lost the weight, as Rabbitluvr says.) Nothing says "intellectual void" like an xxx-large t-shirt with "Phat Farm" and an overdone design. You look like an extra from Jersey Shore. DO NOT buy skinny jeans. Buy fitted clothing with clean lines, even if it's just a t-shirt and jeans.
Since I doubt you'll join Weight Watchers (though it WOULD be an awesome place for you to meet women, just sayin' - my weekly meeting is chock full of hot young chicks who are just looking to take off 10 pounds), I suggest the Glycemic Index diet or simply cutting out the "white stuff" - refined sugar and flour. I did this a few years ago and dropped 10 pounds in just a few weeks.
Finally, what on earth are you growing on your face? Either pick a facial hair style with well defined lines or SHAVE. You look less like you're growing a beard than cultivating a patchy layer of moss.
Good luck, dude.
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