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Old 09-24-2012, 04:37 PM
 
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I wouldn't make any changes for my husband, not minor or major changes. If I am going to make changes it would be for myself, never for someone else.
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Old 09-24-2012, 04:41 PM
 
Location: Mammoth Lakes, CA
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Anyone naive enough to think the Kanye-Kim K. relationship is remotely real is hopefully 15 years old.

No older.

This is a patently manufactured relationship, no different from Michael Jackson-Lisa Marie Presley, Kris Humphires-Kardashian "relationship," ad infinitum.

Both will have a signed contract and both get what they desperately crave: media attention and millions of dollars of revenue.
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Old 09-25-2012, 11:07 PM
 
Location: Australia
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Lol I wouldn't change one single jot.

My last "relationship" was just getting off the ground, he was massaging me, being all lovey dovey, and he goes

"I could get so serious about you if you would just lose a bit of weight"

I snapped back

"and I could get serious about you if you would just grow a bigger dick"

needless to say, it was over before it started.

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Old 09-25-2012, 11:32 PM
 
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Oooh good question. I often think a potent measure of love is sacrifice and the less selfish a person is, the more they can sacrifice, and their love is more intense.
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Old 09-25-2012, 11:36 PM
 
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So I saw this article about Kim K and Kanye. And well I was disappointed:
News Republic: Kanye tells Kim to Lose Weight

I mean wasn't Kanye the one all over Kim. Does he really think he can transform a woman who has built a brand on being a little "trashy" into someone classy? So instead of talking about Kim/Kanye, let's talk about ourselves.

It is time for a good question, what and how much would you cange for a partner. Would you lose weight? Change your body? Change your fashion choices? Change your friends? Change your career? Something else? Nothing?

And if you have changed for a relationship, what did you do?

Do you seriously believe that Kanye is classy?

Nothing on me has changed or will change FOR anyone but ME, I've lost 500 pounds to date and have about 40 more to lose but it is purely for myself, no one else. Don't like it, don't hang around I am as I am and it's good enough for me.
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Old 09-25-2012, 11:42 PM
 
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He asks me to:

-Quit going to the gym. ""Peace out, brother."

-Stop leaving my clothes on the back of the chair. OK, I can do that.

-Quit hanging out with my guy friends. "Heck no!" *kicks him to the recycle bin & zipties it shut*

In short, I am willing to change irritating or less than endearing habits.

I refuse to change the core of who I am Can't teach an old dog new tricks.
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Old 09-25-2012, 11:44 PM
 
Location: Australia
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Do you seriously believe that Kanye is classy?

Nothing on me has changed or will change FOR anyone but ME, I've lost 500 pounds to date and have about 40 more to lose but it is purely for myself, no one else. Don't like it, don't hang around I am as I am and it's good enough for me.
500 pounds?????????

woah big girl.

Kanye west and KK are absolutely perfect for one another, both fame wh*res without a brain cell to call their own, I wish they would just go away, or someone would sprinkle salt on them and they'd curl up and shrivel away like snails.

If you stripped off all the make up and bs there'd be nothing left but a pile of clothes...ugly clothes at that.

why do people watch them? oh dont answer i dont wish to know.

they will get married next and have a test tube baby, everyone knows kanye is as camp as a row of tents.

she looks like an italian granma just waiting to bust out with the hips and the boobs and the mustache.
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Old 09-25-2012, 11:49 PM
 
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500 pounds?????????

woah big girl.

Kanye west and KK are absolutely perfect for one another, both fame wh*res without a brain cell to call their own, I wish they would just go away, or someone would sprinkle salt on them and they'd curl up and shrivel away like snails.

If you stripped off all the make up and bs there'd be nothing left but a pile of clothes...ugly clothes at that.

why do people watch them? oh dont answer i dont wish to know.

they will get married next and have a test tube baby, everyone knows kanye is as camp as a row of tents.

she looks like an italian granma just waiting to bust out with the hips and the boobs and the mustache.

I haven't been a physically big girl for about 10 years now.
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Old 09-25-2012, 11:53 PM
 
Location: Australia
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I haven't been a physically big girl for about 10 years now.
jeez i was thinking it was a typo.

you seriously were over 600lb?

wow. congrats on losing it, that mustve been a huge effort.
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Old 09-25-2012, 11:53 PM
 
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I doubt I'd change anything unless it was something I wanted to do anyway. I would not be in a serious relationship or marry someone that I did not accept "as is". I would not ever get married with the idea of changing that person, and I would expect the same of him. It is one thing if I want to change something, it is another when someone else tries to change me. How much can you love me if you want to change me, accept me as I am.
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