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Old 10-10-2012, 08:48 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Old 10-10-2012, 08:49 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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That's because you've never gotten laid.
Neither had you, at last report.

Back off the Kid.
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Old 10-10-2012, 08:49 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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What is wrong with you? A guy wants to avoid STD's and unwanted pregnancy and you're telling him that he's gay? And for the record - there's nothing wrong with being gay - but why on earth are you going there?
There isn't anything wrong with being gay. I have nothing against gay men or women.

I find it very unusual for a hetero guy to reject sex from a girl because she won't take an STD test. It's strange. Most people just use protection. No one is that paranoid unless they are a closet case
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Old 10-10-2012, 08:51 PM
 
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What is wrong with you? A guy wants to avoid STD's and unwanted pregnancy and you're telling him that he's gay? And for the record - there's nothing wrong with being gay - but why on earth are you going there?
Consider the source, Dew.
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Old 10-10-2012, 08:56 PM
 
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That's because you've never gotten laid.



You're paranoid.



Maybe your "standards" are for men.

Most heterosexual men would never turn down a woman because she refused to take a STD test. They would have just used protection. I only read stuff like this online. This is so not the norm

No it wont be worth it. Plenty of people have sex without knowing the other person's status and get by just fine. Again, you're very paranoid.
You look for a tall man with qualities... Yet when you will meet him, you will see him as so surreal that you won't give him a chance.

I'm a real person who walks on this planet. I have been told I am unique but I am just a human with a personality. I am guided by my soul, and who I am is who I am.
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Old 10-10-2012, 08:59 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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You look for a tall man with qualities... Yet when you will meet him, you will see him as so surreal that you won't give him a chance.

I'm a real person who walks on this planet. I have been told I am unique but I am just a human with a personality. I am guided by my soul, and who I am is who I am.
Hun, there's no reason to be afraid of the vagina. It won't bite you Just use a condom and have a little fun once in awhile. You're too paranoid and uptight about sex for a man. It's usually the women who are worried.
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Old 10-10-2012, 09:05 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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There isn't anything wrong with being gay. I have nothing against gay men or women.

I find it very unusual for a hetero guy to reject sex from a girl because she won't take an STD test. It's strange. Most people just use protection. No one is that paranoid unless they are a closet case
You have nothing against gay people and yet you are using homosexuality to insult someone. There is nothing wrong with being overly cautious. It would be much better for society as a whole of people were overly cautious instead of stupid and reckless. Think of all the unplanned pregnancies that could be avoided. Think of all the STD's that would die out.



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Consider the source, Dew.
I guess that's what's shocking about it to me. For someone who is always complaining that people have prejudices and such - she's being a real brat.
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Old 10-10-2012, 09:14 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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You have nothing against gay people and yet you are using homosexuality to insult someone. There is nothing wrong with being overly cautious. It would be much better for society as a whole of people were overly cautious instead of stupid and reckless. Think of all the unplanned pregnancies that could be avoided. Think of all the STD's that would die out.
I'm not using homosexuality to insult him. Maybe he is gay and hasn't come to terms with his sexuality yet. Because most young horny hetero guys are NOT going to turn down sex with a girl because she refuses to take an STD test It's not the norm. I know if any guy used that excuse with me, he immediately goes into the 'closet case' category with me.

The rest of your post sounds like scare tactics moms used to scare their teens away from having sex. btw, is the OP a teen? If he is under 18 then sorry. But if not, then my opinion still stands. The young man needs to relax and stop being so uptight. He isn't going to die from sex.
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Old 10-10-2012, 09:15 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I'm not using homosexuality to insult him. Maybe he is gay and hasn't come to terms with his sexuality yet. Because most young horny hetero guys are NOT going to turn down sex with a girl because she refuses to take an STD test It's not the norm. I know if any guy used that excuse with me, he immediately goes into the 'closet case' category with me.

The rest of your post sounds like scare tactics moms used to scare their teens away from having sex. btw, is the OP a teen? If he is under 18 then sorry. But if not, then my opinion still stands. The young man needs to relax and stop being so uptight. He isn't going to die from sex.
Yeah - sure you aren't.

Just give it a rest.
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Old 10-10-2012, 09:18 PM
 
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I'm not using homosexuality to insult him. Maybe he is gay and hasn't come to terms with his sexuality yet. Because most young horny hetero guys are NOT going to turn down sex with a girl because she refuses to take an STD test It's not the norm. I know if any guy used that excuse with me, he immediately goes into the 'closet case' category with me.

The rest of your post sounds like scare tactics moms used to scare their teens away from having sex. btw, is the OP a teen? If he is under 18 then sorry. But if not, then my opinion still stands. The young man needs to relax and stop being so uptight. He isn't going to die from sex.
I am 21 ma'am, and yes, some people do die of stds.

It's possible to master temptation, even if you get stiff ones daily.
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