Should i be jealous or not??? (boyfriend, long distance, women, love)
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Hey Ladies and gents.
I have a hell of a time trying to figure out why i am so pissy when it comes to my boyfriend hanging out with other women.... for example, last night him and his gay friend were hanging out with a chick, and they decided to watch a movie and they were all laying in his bed together. I dont live in the same city as him, but he seems to always be with girls, and tells me that he only loves me and he is not cheating, but there are condoms missing from the box in his drawer, we dont use them cause we are fixed, lol. so i am wondering how do i get over my jealousy, or should i be jealous and confront him???
Welp you will not get over the jealously and you already don't trust him enough to count the condoms left in his box so I would cut him loose and move on to someone you do actually trust.
It's entirely possible to be friends with a girl, and even sleep in their bed for that matter, and have nothing happen. My best friend and I were like that years ago. I've always had lots of girl friends who were nothing but that. Just friends.
HOWEVER....missing condoms....meeeeeh, that would perk my ears up. Course, he might be experimenting with his buddy, and doesn't want poo poo on his pee pee, so I wouldn't count that out. lol
edit: I agree with CSD. You don't trust him, cut him loose.
lol, trust me i have thought of the second one going on too. my guy is very metrosexual. he likes to get mani-petties and lululemon is his favorite store, blah blah blah, he has been acting different, ****, we dont have sex very often, i live an hour and a half away and she him once every couple weeks....
Forget it. I think he's more than very metrosexual. I don't give a hoot if a dude wants to get his feet done once and a while after doing some hard work and what not. But, I had to google Lulumelon. That should not be any regular joe's favorite store. Can I assume his wardrobe consists of yoga pants and man purses? lol
I don't think he's your.....type, anymore. It's cool, whatever he wants to do, but he's gonna have to be honest with you so this can end, and you can both move on.
Hey Ladies and gents.
I have a hell of a time trying to figure out why i am so pissy when it comes to my boyfriend hanging out with other women.... for example, last night him and his gay friend were hanging out with a chick, and they decided to watch a movie and they were all laying in his bed together. I dont live in the same city as him, but he seems to always be with girls, and tells me that he only loves me and he is not cheating, but there are condoms missing from the box in his drawer, we dont use them cause we are fixed, lol. so i am wondering how do i get over my jealousy, or should i be jealous and confront him???
If you don't use condoms because you are both fixed, why does he even have them in the first place? That some are missing is definitely a red flag. I know my trust would be shot in a situation like that, and honestly? A man in a committed relationship should not be in bed with another woman, even as friends. It's just plain inappropriate.
If you have ANY kind of jealousy problem, then a long distance relationship is NOT for you.
And the whole question, "Should I be jealous?"...you can't 'should' any emotion, really.
I don't think anyone SHOULD ever be jealous. It's a petty emotion based ENTIRELY on insecurity and a desire to control someone else.
It's entirely possible to be friends with a girl, and even sleep in their bed for that matter, and have nothing happen. My best friend and I were like that years ago. I've always had lots of girl friends who were nothing but that. Just friends.
HOWEVER....missing condoms....meeeeeh, that would perk my ears up. Course, he might be experimenting with his buddy, and doesn't want poo poo on his pee pee, so I wouldn't count that out. lol
edit: I agree with CSD. You don't trust him, cut him loose.
Forget it. I think he's more than very metrosexual. I don't give a hoot if a dude wants to get his feet done once and a while after doing some hard work and what not. But, I had to google Lulumelon. That should not be any regular joe's favorite store. Can I assume his wardrobe consists of yoga pants and man purses? lol
I don't think he's your.....type, anymore. It's cool, whatever he wants to do, but he's gonna have to be honest with you so this can end, and you can both move on.
I agree. Especially since you live too far away to see him as regularly as these other people see him.
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