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I'm shocked that lesbos can sexually assault another female mostly they are feminists protecting their own kind always. my advice to you OP, don't pursue your sexual exploits until you learn to stand up for yourself. being abused before is not an excuse to stay timid and being afraid to get physically assaulted anytime i mean if you won't learn to protect yourself ever then you will be a victim forever and you dont want that, do you?
and remember... you can always have sex!...... with yourself.
I'm shocked that I'm receiving some not so nice responses. I've had people message me advising that this is my fault, I got what I deserved etc. I just came here to find out where I could get help
It's not your fault. You can't un do it, but in the future you should take more precautions to reduce the risk/opportunity for someone to do that again. That's just street smarts, to avoid danger or risky situations. Don't be alone with strangers or people you just met. Wait till you have been out with them a few times to get a better feel for them and you could also invite them to your place if you have a roommate at least in another room.
Self-blame and guilt or shame often accompany a sexual assault. I'm sorry that you went through this. The people at RAINN can give you better advice and understanding than a lot of us on C-D.
Your profile says you are in Atlanta...GNESA is another resource just for the state of Georgia.
Same sex rape is probably one of the most under reported crimes out there. Call the Hotline. This freak is probably going to continue this "You will like it rough" crap on someone else.
Same sex rape is probably one of the most under reported crimes out there. Call the Hotline. This freak is probably going to continue this "You will like it rough" crap on someone else.
Actually, I think we can lay bets that this wasn't the freak's first time doing something like this, no matter what she might have implied to her victim
Actually, I think we can lay bets that this wasn't the freak's first time doing something like this, no matter what she might have implied to her victim
Woman on woman like male on male sexual assualt gets unreported in the majority of cases due to shame, societal roll expectations, support structure etc. If I had not heard of this in person from a cousin and a former girlfriend I would think it was non-existant.
I'm afraid of what they will say...for example calling me stupid or asking me why would I put myself into a situation like that.
If you're going to call you stupid... Clearly they're not your friends.
These things happen often and the best thing you can do is talk it out with someone.
Just putting it out there rather then have the stress bundled up in a big ball.
Trust me you'll feel better after everything is said and done. If you have one really close friend you need to talk to them about it. Someone that has always been there for you... They'll understand. Anyone as a human being shouldn't take this as a joke. This can lead to serious emotional scarring. I'm sorry that happened; hope you have a nice day though!
I'm afraid of what they will say...for example calling me stupid or asking me why would I put myself into a situation like that.
Follow JZ's advice. You don't have to tell your friends, unless they are volunteers at the agency you go talk to. Take care of you. Sorry this happened to you, hope you find the help you need.
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