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View Poll Results: Will you do something kinky to please someone?
I will do whatever asked 14 24.56%
Yes, as long as it doesn't involve pain 34 59.65%
I'm a bit prudish so no 6 10.53%
I want my partner to do kinky stuff but am afraid to ask 8 14.04%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 57. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 11-18-2012, 10:22 PM
 
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I've heard it said that "Life Begins At The End Of Your Comfort Zone", with that in mind I've always said I'd try anything once, as long as it didn't hurt anyone and didn't make a mess on the floor that would have to be cleaned up. I was single for 13 years between my first marriage and my present marriage, so yes I did a few kinky things that turned out to be fun. And since this forum is PG 13, I can't tell you just what those things I did/tried were, but they always left her with a smile on her face. I have always put my partners pleasure ahead of my own, and to verify that, my partner has always been a woman.
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Old 11-18-2012, 10:28 PM
 
Location: Sometimes Miami sometimes Australia
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[quote=Nite Ryder;27009791]I've heard it said that "Life Begins At The End Of Your Comfort Zone", with that in mind I've always said I'd try anything once, as long as it didn't hurt anyone and didn't make a mess on the floor that would have to be cleaned up. I was single for 13 years between my first marriage and my present marriage, so yes I did a few kinky things that turned out to be fun. And since this forum is PG 13, I can't tell you just what those things I did/tried were, but they always left her with a smile on her face. I have always put my partners pleasure ahead of my own, and to verify that, my partner has always been a woman.[/quote]

Then you haven't left your comfort zone yet
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Old 11-18-2012, 10:30 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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Search me on the net, my pornstar name is 'BrunoWannaBe.'
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Old 11-18-2012, 10:38 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Search me on the net, my pornstar name is 'BrunoWannaBe.'
I didn't find anything.

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Old 11-18-2012, 11:34 PM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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I find the survey choices lacking. I'm pretty sure everyone has at least one 'will not do', but 'doesn't involve pain' is too limiting...the last two choice aren't even close.

Was in a relationship with a Scorpio for just over 13 years - anyone who's dated one should know what that's like.

As many have said, kinky is quite subjective. I think it helps if you let a potential partner know what your level is before you slip between the sheets, communication is everything.
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Old 11-19-2012, 12:17 AM
 
Location: Westminster, CO
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Some relationships are based entirely on kink.
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Old 11-19-2012, 01:19 AM
 
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My partners are quite adverturous periodically so yes we have on quite a number of occasions asked each other to engage in all sorts of activities. I guess it depends on what you mean by "Kinky". One persons kinky is another persons standard day to day.
Please elaborate ")
On what? On how ones definition of "kinky" can be another person's normal? I would have thought that obvious enough. "Kinky" is a bit of a floating definition. If you do something every day then that is not going to see "Kinky" to you. To someone who has never done it ever however it might be top of their "Kinky" list. So really - if you want your OP to make any sense - you have to clarify exactly what you mean by "kinky". As it stands your question is unanswerable.
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Old 11-19-2012, 02:24 AM
 
Location: Sometimes Miami sometimes Australia
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On what? On how ones definition of "kinky" can be another person's normal? I would have thought that obvious enough. "Kinky" is a bit of a floating definition. If you do something every day then that is not going to see "Kinky" to you. To someone who has never done it ever however it might be top of their "Kinky" list. So really - if you want your OP to make any sense - you have to clarify exactly what you mean by "kinky". As it stands your question is unanswerable.
On what activities you consider kinky and other you consider average
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Old 11-19-2012, 02:40 AM
 
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On what activities you consider kinky and other you consider average
The question is still too general. Such a list would be so long I would not know where to start. Perhaps if you had some more specific questions I could help you.
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Old 11-19-2012, 03:08 AM
 
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I didn't find anything.
Sorry to disappoint you, Inebriated Duck, I lied, you won't get to see my bodacious, leather-clad bod after all!
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