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View Poll Results: Will you do something kinky to please someone?
I will do whatever asked 14 24.56%
Yes, as long as it doesn't involve pain 34 59.65%
I'm a bit prudish so no 6 10.53%
I want my partner to do kinky stuff but am afraid to ask 8 14.04%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 57. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 08-01-2013, 09:53 AM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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I am surprised that this thread has yet to include the genre of BDSM. Find many elements of this lifestyle great fun.
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Old 08-01-2013, 12:52 PM
 
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I am surprised that this thread has yet to include the genre of BDSM. Find many elements of this lifestyle great fun.
Possibly because it would lead to discussion outside of the PG13 realm.
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Old 08-01-2013, 07:38 PM
 
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Interesting results so far, only 3 out of 44 not "into" kinky or the idea of kinky.
That's because we can't really say specifics, I know I am into stuff that very few women are into so it's a challenge
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Old 08-02-2013, 01:40 AM
 
Location: Phoenix Arizona
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A ex GF asked me ( many years ago) to shave my entire body once. I wasn't that hairy to beging with but she said she wanted me as smooth as she was. Well to make her happy I went ahead and did it and although at first I found it unusual I actually enjoyed the sex while completely smooth. Enjoyed it so much I continued to keep my body smooth nearly 20 years later and to this day.

I've had a pretty adventurous sex life in the past. Same room couple swap, threesomes ( both male and females), videotaping, role playing, public nudity....that's all I can think of for now.
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Old 08-02-2013, 08:51 AM
 
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That's because we can't really say specifics, I know I am into stuff that very few women are into so it's a challenge
intriguing highlife....
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Old 08-02-2013, 10:27 PM
 
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I have to post this under this name to protect the guilty.

I got married very young to a very sweet church going young lady who was very conservative. Dressed conservative, saved herself for marriage, went to church with her family every Sunday, etc.

We were both 20. We got married, I joined the military and she turned into a porn star overnight. First she wanted to rent porn movies. Then she decided she wanted to have sex in various parts of the house on various pieces of furniture.

Once she thought it would be fun to engage in a oral sex while I was driving and following her parents in their car.

Then she wanted to tie me up. I agreed and then (I didn't know she would do this) she started to tickle me. I jumped, pulled at my bonds and ended up breaking my finger on a wall.

After we got over the major fight, she wanted to play strip poker with another couple we knew and have sex in the same room with them. I declined and she did the poker game anyways and God knows what else after I left. I'm sure she was part of a threesome.

To say we were mismatched was an understatement. This all came out of the blue. We we divorced after a year.

I'm now married to a wonderful woman for 27 years.

I'm sure the porn star is still frolicking all over the place.
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Old 08-03-2013, 08:47 AM
 
Location: Katy
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I have to post this under this name to protect the guilty.

I got married very young to a very sweet church going young lady who was very conservative. Dressed conservative, saved herself for marriage, went to church with her family every Sunday, etc.

We were both 20. We got married, I joined the military and she turned into a porn star overnight. First she wanted to rent porn movies. Then she decided she wanted to have sex in various parts of the house on various pieces of furniture.

Once she thought it would be fun to engage in a oral sex while I was driving and following her parents in their car.

Then she wanted to tie me up. I agreed and then (I didn't know she would do this) she started to tickle me. I jumped, pulled at my bonds and ended up breaking my finger on a wall.

After we got over the major fight, she wanted to play strip poker with another couple we knew and have sex in the same room with them. I declined and she did the poker game anyways and God knows what else after I left. I'm sure she was part of a threesome.

To say we were mismatched was an understatement. This all came out of the blue. We we divorced after a year.

I'm now married to a wonderful woman for 27 years.

I'm sure the porn star is still frolicking all over the place.
Sorry about your experience there, but it sounds like you might have lost a pretty "fun" wife. I believe the quote that comes to mind is "You want a Lady in public, but a ***** in the bedroom", sounds like that is what you had maybe.
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Old 08-03-2013, 10:48 AM
 
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Sorry about your experience there, but it sounds like you might have lost a pretty "fun" wife. I believe the quote that comes to mind is "You want a Lady in public, but a ***** in the bedroom", sounds like that is what you had maybe.
Very true. I limited the story, but there were other problems which led to the divorce. I had fun with most of the things she wanted, but not a fan of being tied up and wasn't thrilled with the idea of sharing her.

I didn't list half the things she did or wanted to do because I don't think I can write them here. It was like someone flipped a switch once we were married. She went from Mother Teresa to Linda Lovelace.
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Old 08-03-2013, 11:04 AM
 
Location: All Over
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I think many if not most people are kinky but are afraid to tell their partner what they are interested in, into, want to experiment with.

When you find it in yourself to be upfront with people and even more so when you find someone who doesn't look at you differently but is willing to try things with you it will be the best experience ever.

With my current gf despite the fact in the past I've often been shy about certain things for some reason we've both really opened up about things were into or would like to try and there's somethings we did once and havn't done since and other wierd things we've both discovered we like.

Unless something is unsafe or really grosses you out no reason not to try something or look down on others for enjoying something.
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