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So my ex girlfriend and i were together for 6 months. She ended up leaving for some other guy. Anyways i ended doing everything a guy shouldn't do, i was constantly begging and pleading for her to come back. It obviously didn't work. So she eventually told me to **** off and she doesn't want me in her life at and that she had a new boyfriend.
I was deeply in love with her, i was heartbroken. So i was like fine so i left her alone for exactly 3 weeks. And one day i was at work and i texted her my address asking her to please mail me a few of my belongings that i had left at her place. And she said OK.
So then the next day she started texting me some random ass ****. And i was like wtf? So i did not respond for 2 days. So i noticed that she had text me really? As in saying why are you ignoring me. So i finally decided to text her back a day later and asked how she was doing. So after that we started texting each other back and forth. So one day she asked me if i wanted to meet up for a late night coffee. And i said sure. So we met up and everything was great, we had a great time. But she was giving me mixed signals, she was tickling me and touching my hair. I don't know is that being flirtatious? I would think so. So of course i kept my cool and went along with it. And there were moments where it looked like she wanted me to make a move by kissing her .But i didn't to make such a move and blow it.
So we kept on talking after the coffee date and she told me that she only wanted to be friends. But deep down inside me i wasn't cool with it to just be friends cuz i still have feelings for her.So i was just like ok cool whatever. So one day we were texting each other and she randomly asked me through text, whatever happened to the days when supposedly i just wanted to get laid just saying?... And yes we were sex buddies before we started to actually date and get serious. I was stunned that she asked me that. And of course my dumbass didn't know to respond to it. And then another day we were talking about sex how our sex was so fabulous and passionate. And we would talk about doing things in the future together like wanting to travel to Oregon together. She mention other dudes over the phone and then she would laugh and tell me that she could picture my face expression, or reaction to it. In my mind i was like wtf does she want with me. Oh and apparently that boyfriend that she had, they were only dating. And she told me that she was still seeing him. I didn't know what her deal was.
So then i invited her to dinner and a LA Phil concert. And she said yes to my invitation. So i was like cool. But i was so confused i didn't know what to do.So a few days before the big concert date, i ended up canceling the date. I told her how i felt that i still loved and that i don't want to just be friends. I told her that i am willing to work things out with her and to take things slow. I also told her that i adored her. And her response was if i really loved and adored i wouldn't have canceled out date. So anyways i told her that i don't want to be friends, and if she is not willing to work things out then i'm out of here. She had a very emotional tone in her voice when i said that to her. So we said bye to each other.
So then 2 days pass by and of my unsecured self decides to call her like an idiot to tell her i'm sorry. And she said that i am so immature and to basically **** off and that she never wanted to hear from me ever again. What do you all think of this crazy story? I personally think i completely blew my chance with her.
Oh yes and one more thing when i asked her to mail my stuff to me she never did. And after the coffee date i went over to her place and we hungout for about 10 mins because i was in the area. And she said oh you can take your things today. And i said cool, and then was like oh well i still to read this Mythology book that i had lent her.I was thinking She's had it for 4 months and still supposedly she hasn't finished reading it. So asked if she could keep for longer and i said ok that's fine. So anyways after the argument i asked again to please mail my stuff over or if i can come over to pick it up and she never responded.
If you guys and females can please help me out i would appreciate it. Thanks.
You remind me of one of my x tenants.
He had girl problems similar to yours except, in that relationship, she was abusive physically.
I will tell you the same thing I told him.
Forget it and move on.
Life is to short to waste your time on such stupid matters.
If she cared for you, you would still be together.
You aren't, so it is time to put this behind you and find someone else.
If you answer that with "But I don't want any one else", then you deserve all you get.
There are plenty of fish in the sea, and you had better learn to use that rod in your fly(oops, I meant that flyrod) and do some fishing for another one.
Let's face it, you are just spinning your wheels if you think this half hearted romance is the way to go.
Bob.
So my ex girlfriend and i were together for 6 months. She ended up leaving for some other guy. Anyways i ended doing everything a guy shouldn't do, i was constantly begging and pleading for her to come back. It obviously didn't work. So she eventually told me to **** off and she doesn't want me in her life at and that she had a new boyfriend.
I was deeply in love with her, i was heartbroken. So i was like fine so i left her alone for exactly 3 weeks. And one day i was at work and i texted her my address asking her to please mail me a few of my belongings that i had left at her place. And she said OK.
So then the next day she started texting me some random ass ****. And i was like wtf? So i did not respond for 2 days. So i noticed that she had text me really? As in saying why are you ignoring me. So i finally decided to text her back a day later and asked how she was doing. So after that we started texting each other back and forth. So one day she asked me if i wanted to meet up for a late night coffee. And i said sure. So we met up and everything was great, we had a great time. But she was giving me mixed signals, she was tickling me and touching my hair. I don't know is that being flirtatious? I would think so. So of course i kept my cool and went along with it. And there were moments where it looked like she wanted me to make a move by kissing her .But i didn't to make such a move and blow it.
So we kept on talking after the coffee date and she told me that she only wanted to be friends. But deep down inside me i wasn't cool with it to just be friends cuz i still have feelings for her.So i was just like ok cool whatever. So one day we were texting each other and she randomly asked me through text, whatever happened to the days when supposedly i just wanted to get laid just saying?... And yes we were sex buddies before we started to actually date and get serious. I was stunned that she asked me that. And of course my dumbass didn't know to respond to it. And then another day we were talking about sex how our sex was so fabulous and passionate. And we would talk about doing things in the future together like wanting to travel to Oregon together. She mention other dudes over the phone and then she would laugh and tell me that she could picture my face expression, or reaction to it. In my mind i was like wtf does she want with me. Oh and apparently that boyfriend that she had, they were only dating. And she told me that she was still seeing him. I didn't know what her deal was.
So then i invited her to dinner and a LA Phil concert. And she said yes to my invitation. So i was like cool. But i was so confused i didn't know what to do.So a few days before the big concert date, i ended up canceling the date. I told her how i felt that i still loved and that i don't want to just be friends. I told her that i am willing to work things out with her and to take things slow. I also told her that i adored her. And her response was if i really loved and adored i wouldn't have canceled out date. So anyways i told her that i don't want to be friends, and if she is not willing to work things out then i'm out of here. She had a very emotional tone in her voice when i said that to her. So we said bye to each other.
So then 2 days pass by and of my unsecured self decides to call her like an idiot to tell her i'm sorry. And she said that i am so immature and to basically **** off and that she never wanted to hear from me ever again. What do you all think of this crazy story? I personally think i completely blew my chance with her.
Oh yes and one more thing when i asked her to mail my stuff to me she never did. And after the coffee date i went over to her place and we hungout for about 10 mins because i was in the area. And she said oh you can take your things today. And i said cool, and then was like oh well i still to read this Mythology book that i had lent her.I was thinking She's had it for 4 months and still supposedly she hasn't finished reading it. So asked if she could keep for longer and i said ok that's fine. So anyways after the argument i asked again to please mail my stuff over or if i can come over to pick it up and she never responded.
If you guys and females can please help me out i would appreciate it. Thanks.
Sounds like she wants to BOTH date other guys, and date/have sex with you.
It sounds like you only want her as a girlfriend, and have no interest in dating/seeing anyone else. In short, don't take her so seriously. If you want to have fun/have sex, than do that, but don't get so emotionally tied into her.
Sounds like she likes you, on that level, but she doesn't want to be committed. She's probably young (or naive, or both, or recently single), and wants to socialize with others, meet others, etc., as well. It's also clear that she has an interest in you (sexually or for fun), but equally clear that she doesn't want to be committed 1-to-1 with you either (exclusive, marriage-focused, etc).
Sounds like she likes you, on that level, but she doesn't want to be committed. She's probably young (or naive, or both, or recently single), and wants to socialize with others, meet others, etc., as well. It's also clear that she has an interest in you (sexually or for fun), but equally clear that she doesn't want to be committed 1-to-1 with you either (exclusive, marriage-focused, etc).
Sounds like my EX!!! If OP can't handle the non-exclusive relationship/just sex... better to move on before getting hurt more and longer!!
Hey thanks for the response man. Yeah i know i was kinda thinking the same thing that maybe she just wants to date and have sex with me. But the thing is i still have feelings for her, and she obviously knows that. So i broke off the date with her to protect myself from getting hurt again...
So now that she has told me that she never wants to hear from me ever again I can't really do anything but to try to move on completely.But then in the back of my mind i sense that she will end up contacting me again...False hope lol
What do u think i should do now that we got into a fight and stopped communication? Move on obviously right. The thing is that i really loved this girl. Oh shes 25 and i'm 23. It was very difficult to deal with such heart ache. Knowing that she was talking and seeing someone else.
And apparently she still is talking to and seeing him.
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