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In my youth, I could never seem to resist the painful agony of heartbreak. I reveled in my self-pity. But, as I grew older, I think I learned you get what you expect and the expectation of agony was replaced by the expectation of love.
Married for 5 years, together nearly 10. Divorced 2 months ago, although took our rings off and said it was over 6 months ago. I've only dated one person since, but it only lasted a few weeks.
I don't think I've adjusted to the idea of being around someone who physically looks different. The idea is odd. I see her with her new guy, and think "that's odd."
I'm already dreading meeting someone news family, having to talk about myself, feign interest in things I'm not interested in, communicate regularly with them, etc etc.
So I've pretty much dedicated myself to my hobbies, upgraded some recording equipment, and have been having a blast being alone. I keep myself incredibly entertained, and find all my thoughts/jokes/hobbies interesting and funny. I consider myself very lucky to be able to spend time with myself..
Last edited by TheEarthBeneathMe; 12-05-2012 at 03:25 PM..
Haven't wanted to date since '97 and I haven't missed a thing!Much better off,no one ever wanted me so why get twisted up about it?I put my energies and talents elsewhere.
No one broke my heart.. but it took me about 8 or 9 months to look for anything more than a one night stand after my last relationship.
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