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LOL sounds like all party involve get off via online shenanigans. i bet they also met online too. who does long distance relationship and call it serious anyway. i never ever get it.
Any ideas or advice on what to do in this situation? All comments and criticism are appreciated, I'm just really confused as to what I should do.
Well, first of all, in my opinion, either you are married or you are single. If you are single you have no obligation, nor commitment to anyone and you can do whatever you wish with whomever you wish.
That having been said, this woman and your best friend behaving with such lack of respect for you or your feelings shows to me that you need to find both a new girlfriend *and* a new best friend. These people obviously care only about themselves. You are infinitely better without either of them in your life.
Deeply in love? She's not in love with you if she cheated on you, physically or emotionally.
Dump her ass and move on. She's not worth the effort.
This. ^^^^^
Also, you haven't been together long, and obviously you don't know each other as well as you think, so I hope for everyone's sake you refrain from making more "big plans."
She asks about my friends. She met him through FB and started chatting that way.
She claims she doesn't know why she did it, but felt bad even while doing it. She has confessed how incredibly sorry she is and that she doesn't know how she would carry on without me, and has begged me not to leave her. I still kind of feel obligated to keep her though, since I made the same exact mistake several months ago, except it wasn't with her best friend, just a random girl. Idk, I'm confused. Maybe long distance relationships are just too tough and I should find someone who's here and now.
She will cheat on you for real some day. Guaranteed.
You have a crappy girlfriend and a crappy best friend. Sometimes emotional cheating is just as damaging as physical - either way, it breaks the trust. And if you have zero trust, you don't have a relationship. Lack of trust causes jealousy, anxiety, and other icky things so if you feel like you'll always be wondering if she's faithful after this, it's probably best to end it.
And you shouldn't be talking about marriage after 10 months in a long distance relationship either, but that's just my opinion.
I'd break off this relationship immediately. Your "girlfriend" went out of her way to track down your best friend and cheat on you with him. Is this the type of person you want to have a relationship with? She could have at least had a discreet relationship with someone in her hometown. I'd drop her like a hot potato.
Two wrongs do not make a right....that being said...dump the gf and the friend. Trust is an essential requirement in any longterm lasting relationship whether it be best friend or girlfriend.
Dude you have to dump her. She has no respect for you as a man whatsoever. There is no recovering from this especially since this happened early. The relationship is toast because she is not attracted to you and she has already banged some dude at work or from class.
She didn't literally "bang" him. It all occurred over the phone and Skype.
The only logical solution is to bang HER best friend. Then have both of them cook you a hot meal.
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