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Old 12-17-2012, 09:38 PM
 
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Guys my age don't approach me. I only get younger guys approaching me.

You are very cute, how old are you?

 
Old 12-17-2012, 09:38 PM
 
Location: Central California
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You got that wrong. "Cougars" don't love to "baby" young, poor guys. They may find young guys attractive, but "babying" them is not attractive, that is like being their mother and mothers are not sexually attracted to their sons. In fact, that's gross.

I think perhaps the babying part is a fantasy young guys have about older women.
Nah, I was definitely babied by a cougar before. She used to give me money and make me dinner.

Not saying that's what I was looking for, but that's what happened.
 
Old 12-17-2012, 09:39 PM
 
Location: Central California
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Guys my age don't approach me. I only get younger guys approaching me.
It's because you look our age.

I find you attractive too.
 
Old 12-17-2012, 09:39 PM
 
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I get no more rejection doing that than doing anything else.

So you had the same success rate as when you talked to 20 year olds? That's really hard to believe
 
Old 12-17-2012, 09:40 PM
 
Location: Central California
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I have a 36 yo friend who has a thing for young men. She won't admit it, but it's really all she dates.
Awesome. If she's hot, I'll stop by Austin again and you could hook me up.
 
Old 12-17-2012, 09:42 PM
 
Location: Central California
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So you had the same success rate as when you talked to 20 year olds? That's really hard to believe
Bro, I hit on whoever's hot.

I don't set out to hook up with cougars or keep a scorecard on which girls are easier.

I don't care about rejection. I want what I want and I go after it.
 
Old 12-17-2012, 09:43 PM
 
Location: The State Of California
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I ask this question because I see a lot of guys on the net who like to say that money is a huge aspect of dating/marriage, yet I see tons of guys who are broke as can be not only dating, but often times dating very beautiful and high quality young ladies.



I don't really know how much money matters. It seems like it's only an issue for women who are very successful/come from high income homes or are very materialistic (all of which I believe are a small percentage of women in general). I think a lot of guys cling to the "women love money" thing because it allows them to feel okay about their lack of success
I dated Alpha , Beta , Gamma and Omega Women without money , but you do need money after you hit the age of 25 years old. I married when I was 30 years old and noticed that I started having a really hard time 25 to 30 years old " I even asked several women to marry me and they all said that I wasn't making enough money " ( but if I found a better JOB the marriage would be on ).

There are two different types of Women (the Gold Polisher ) and ( the Gold Digger ) and they both need Money To Feel Secure And Safe In This World As A Woman. The GOLD POLISHER is more into you as a person THE GOLD DIGGER is after your CASH..........and only your Money and if you LOST EVERYTHING you would BE DROPPED LIKE A HOT POTATOE......
 
Old 12-17-2012, 09:45 PM
 
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I dated Alpha , Beta , Gamma and Omega Women without money , but you do need money after you hit the age of 25 years old. I married when I was 30 years old and noticed that I started having a really hard time 25 to 30 years old " I even asked several women to marry me and they all said that I wasn't making enough money " ( but if I found a better JOB the marriage would be on ).



Interesting, so you do believe money makes a big difference when it comes to marriage?
 
Old 12-17-2012, 09:51 PM
 
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I imagine she's in the minority among the older women you know though, right?
Yes, but she's the oldest single friend I have so that makes a difference.

I'm in my early 30s and I don't do younger.

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Awesome. If she's hot, I'll stop by Austin again and you could hook me up.
I'm sure she'd love you, but no.
 
Old 12-17-2012, 09:59 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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These women must be approached 24/7 by men who are attractive, have their stuff together and have a pleasant personality. Why do they pick out a bum over the men who you would think are more qualified?
Because they're not being approached 24/7 by together guys.

I know very attractive and successful women married to guys who aren't very bright, and work as handymen/construction guys. The guys don't even have a regular income. These marriages have been together a long time, so there's more to the picture than brains and income, clearly.
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