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Old 09-11-2013, 03:20 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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Have any other guys gotten sick of girls telling them they're "bad texters?" I understand we have busy lives and whatnot but it doesn't take but 1 minute to say "hey I'm busy ttyl" instead you'll hear NOTHING at all. It's like one minute she takes .2 seconds to respond to your texts for hours, then BAM! Nothing, even though iMessage says she read your message. Ladies we don't need to keep you in check knowing brushing your doing but if you get busy let us know, don't just leave us hanging.

Sometimes it worse than that, sometimes girls take hours to reply to a simple "hey what's up" the reply of kts not the one worded "hey" is usually "sorry I'm a bad texter" BS you're not a bad texter, you're just texting 64 other dudes. These same girls who claim to be such "bad texters" CONSTANTLY have their phones in their hand when you do go on a date with them.

Ladies you need to stop that crap, it's just rude.

One of my major red flags with women is a bad texter.
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Old 09-11-2013, 03:26 PM
 
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That's rather nitpicky of you. Not trying to be rude, but come on dude.
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Old 09-11-2013, 03:27 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Men do this too. And depending on the person some are. I do agree with you though I dislike the response 3+hrs later. Tell me you are busy and will text me later.
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Old 09-11-2013, 03:31 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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FreedomforMorsi how is it nitpicking?

Raena77, yes guys do it too. But I don't date guys so I'm calling out the women here
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Old 09-11-2013, 03:32 PM
 
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I hate texting. Bad for your fingers, too, I heard. I prefer phone calls.
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Old 09-11-2013, 03:33 PM
 
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FreedomforMorsi how is it nitpicking?

Raena77, yes guys do it too. But I don't date guys so I'm calling out the women here

Well, it's just an issue of texting. Some people are late repliers. It doesn't have much to do in ways of relationships.
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Old 09-11-2013, 03:36 PM
 
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Have any other guys gotten sick of girls telling them they're "bad texters?" I understand we have busy lives and whatnot but it doesn't take but 1 minute to say "hey I'm busy ttyl" instead you'll hear NOTHING at all. It's like one minute she takes .2 seconds to respond to your texts for hours, then BAM! Nothing, even though iMessage says she read your message. Ladies we don't need to keep you in check knowing brushing your doing but if you get busy let us know, don't just leave us hanging.

Sometimes it worse than that, sometimes girls take hours to reply to a simple "hey what's up" the reply of kts not the one worded "hey" is usually "sorry I'm a bad texter" BS you're not a bad texter, you're just texting 64 other dudes. These same girls who claim to be such "bad texters" CONSTANTLY have their phones in their hand when you do go on a date with them.

Ladies you need to stop that crap, it's just rude.

One of my major red flags with women is a bad texter.

Yeah...THEY are the problem here....clearly.
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Old 09-11-2013, 03:39 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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Well, it's just an issue of texting. Some people are late repliers. It doesn't have much to do in ways of relationships.
If you're with somebody it shouldn't take 7 hrs to reply to a text. Unless you're at work, or driving, there's no excuse not to text a love interest back.

And if she's texting me....she better have an iPhone with iMessage, I need to make sure she read my text. I don't mess with girls with android and their green text bubbles....😒
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Old 09-11-2013, 03:39 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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I understand we have busy lives and whatnot
Funny you say that, because the rest of your post indicates that you don't realize that at all.

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One of my major red flags with women is a bad texter.
Something tells me you raise a few red flag flags with them, too.
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Old 09-11-2013, 03:43 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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If you're with somebody it shouldn't take 7 hrs to reply to a text. Unless you're at work, or driving, there's no excuse not to text a love interest back.
7 hours? I recently responded to a thread where a woman was upset that a guy hadn't texted back in 24 hours. I didn't think it could get more ridiculous than that, but 7 hours? Really? What's next, 30 minutes?
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