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I know that is not the world we live in that's just the mentality I have and how I live my life for better or for worst. Will people see him as defective if he doesn't date at a certain age of course, will I no, if he sees himself as defective that's up to him.
What you say is true Dolleyes while some might find your comments depressing or jaded I find the painfully in a good way with some refreshing harsh truths.
I know, I got the impression that is your mentality and how you choose to live. This OP is only 26, but as he gets older and if in the same situation he should at least be realistic. There's people on here talking about cutting someone off at the knees for the tiniest minuet reasons, some of them downright ridiculous, IMO -- but OP' situation is going to be overlooked? Yea right. Yes I guess he could tell himself 'he's not defective' and maybe some people beleive the stuff they say to themselves. That's fine if it works for them, never did anything for me personally.....I find my comments depressing because the state of the world has gone to the dogs.
I know, I got the impression that is your mentality and how you choose to live. This OP is only 26, but as he gets older and if in the same situation he should at least be realistic. There's people on here talking about cutting someone off at the knees for the tiniest minuet reasons, some of them downright ridiculous, IMO -- but OP' situation is going to be overlooked? Yea right. Yes I guess he could tell himself 'he's not defective' and maybe some people beleive the stuff they say to themselves. That's fine if it works for them, never did anything for me personally.....I find my comments depressing because the state of the world has gone to the dogs.
I find that it is a balance between having a certain outlook and being aware of outside expectations. I can't say anything about his future so I'm just addressing the current.
The grim fact is, I will probably reach my 27th birthday never having had a girlfriend or any romantic relationship. The older I get, and the less social I feel from being a hermit out of anxiety, the less hopeful I get. I'm not even trying.etc, but even when I was dating, I just felt my lack of experience was such a handicap. I'm naturally shy, which doesn't help, but there's that teenage awkwardness because I never learned/experienced those things as a teenager or even in my uni/college years. Now, I get the feeling that some women might just think of me as a freak. Like things like knowing when to kiss a woman, silly stuff like that lol. It's almost like I need a female 'mentor', who will sort of train me, even in the bedroom lmao jk...Maybe i should hire a hooker for the 'job', jj. I'll be one of those 'losers' who will end up a practical virgin by the age of 30. There are some things I don't wanna share, but I'll leave it at that.
What do you do for a living? Are you educated? Career? Usually people get with those of their same financial level...
I"m 38 and I don't have a "career" and that's the majority of my issues, I'm trying to go back to school, I am lonely but I think my issues would be fixed with more financial stability.
I try not to even worry about it, it just ages you.... get a plan and stick with it.
The grim fact is, I will probably reach my 27th birthday never having had a girlfriend or any romantic relationship. The older I get, and the less social I feel from being a hermit out of anxiety, the less hopeful I get. I'm not even trying.etc, but even when I was dating, I just felt my lack of experience was such a handicap. I'm naturally shy, which doesn't help, but there's that teenage awkwardness because I never learned/experienced those things as a teenager or even in my uni/college years. Now, I get the feeling that some women might just think of me as a freak. Like things like knowing when to kiss a woman, silly stuff like that lol. It's almost like I need a female 'mentor', who will sort of train me, even in the bedroom lmao jk...Maybe i should hire a hooker for the 'job', jj. I'll be one of those 'losers' who will end up a practical virgin by the age of 30. There are some things I don't wanna share, but I'll leave it at that.
Do you have friends to hang our with? What type of friends do you have? Usually your friends are a extension of you.
Besides, it's not as if it's something to be ashamed of.
You have a lot to learn, kiddo.
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She'll find out, the truth about stuff like that always comes out. Maybe in your book it isn't something to be ashamed of, but it is in mine and I would dump a guy no questions asked if I ever found out he hired a prostitute.
Exactamundo.
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Originally Posted by zentropa
I'll bet Virijat thinks those ladies are just thrilled to get his call and they fight over the chance to experience his manly technique honed over his three months of sexual experience.
Sweetie, they are laughing at you, you know that right? Bless your heart.
LOL!! Yep...he's pretty clueless.
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