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Old 01-02-2013, 12:51 PM
 
Location: Stop Being Nosy
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Question, when approached by a guy of a different ethnicity.

Each time I've been approached, I get the "Have you ever been with a(white, Indian,Asian,albanian, etc) , during initial conversation.

I really want to laugh and say "What's so special about y'all"?


Men are men.
Penis is penis.
Sex is sex

Its either good or its BAD.

Doesn't really matter what ethnicity you are.

I like ALL men, btw. But I don't feel special or extra happy, with a guy of a different ethnicity.

You're just another man I'm dating. That's all.
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Old 01-02-2013, 12:52 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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No, I haven't, but if someone said that to me, I'd regard it as an attempt to manipulate me on the subject of race. As you said, men are men, people are people.
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Old 01-02-2013, 12:55 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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Question, when approached by a guy of a different ethnicity.

Each time I've been approached, I get the "Have you ever been with a(white, Indian,Asian,albanian, etc) , during initial conversation.

I really want to laugh and say "What's so special about y'all"?


Men are men.
Penis is penis.
Sex is sex

Its either good or its BAD.

Doesn't really matter what ethnicity you are.

I like ALL men, btw. But I don't feel special or extra happy, with a guy of a different ethnicity.

You're just another man I'm dating. That's all.

I HATE getting those questions. I say nope, I've been with a male before though. It surely confuses them. I also hate when a guy tells me how much he loves black womyn or has never had a black womyn before, in which I counter with, "Well, tell me how that search and conquest goes with a black womyn," which still confuses them. I really don't involve myself with males like that. It shows me how they think of me, at least to me it does.
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Old 01-02-2013, 01:06 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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LOL...yes, I've been asked and my response was always, "Do you do it differently than anyone else?" LOL
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Old 01-02-2013, 01:16 PM
 
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For what it's worth, black women are pretty colorful when it comes to answering this question.

Not that I've asked the question directly, but the question has came up in conversation.
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Old 01-02-2013, 01:17 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Yup and 90% of the time I write them off after they say it! It is totally lame....and makes me feel like he is one of those types who are aiming for "Around the world in 80 beds...."
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Old 01-02-2013, 01:19 PM
 
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No one has ever asked me that.
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Old 01-02-2013, 01:19 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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he is one of those types who are aiming for "Around the world in 80 beds...."
What type is that?
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Old 01-02-2013, 01:29 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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What type is that?
Oh, the guy who is trying to hook up with as many types of women as possible. He is typically the one who is like:
"I hooked up with a Puerto Rican last week, and now I am have dates scheduled with a hot Ethiopian girl and a Yugoslavian girl next week. I still need to cross Bardados, the Dominican Republic and Romania off my list."

The woman's ethnicity is almost the most important trait for him, and he wants to prove he's hit all 6 continents or whatever.
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Old 01-02-2013, 01:38 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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Oh, the guy who is trying to hook up with as many types of women as possible. He is typically the one who is like:
"I hooked up with a Puerto Rican last week, and now I am have dates scheduled with a hot Ethiopian girl and a Yugoslavian girl next week. I still need to cross Bardados, the Dominican Republic and Romania off my list."

The woman's ethnicity is almost the most important trait for him, and he wants to prove he's hit all 6 continents or whatever.
Is that bad?

Because I don't see giving bonus points for a woman's nationality as being bad
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