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Old 01-04-2013, 12:50 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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Am I the only one who has been played and hurt so many times that I've become fed up with the opposite sex and would just rather be alone than be with anybody at all?

I mean, I still find women sexually attractive but I just cannot see myself in any kind of a relationship with one. The more beautiful she is, the less I want to be around her anymore than a few moments

Do any guys feel this way about women because of their past experiences? Any women feel this way about men?

 
Old 01-04-2013, 12:52 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Why do you only go for the beautiful women? Have you learned anything at all from your experiences? Is it really so unthinkable that character and personality could be more important than looks?
 
Old 01-04-2013, 12:53 PM
 
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I love men. But whenever I get fed up with relationships, i go the FWB route. No strings attached.
 
Old 01-04-2013, 12:53 PM
 
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I think you may find some company on this forum....
 
Old 01-04-2013, 12:54 PM
 
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well I guess if youre avoidant and have social anxiety/Aspie traits like I do, even if you learn from your own motivations as to why it didn't work sometimes you can just feel self conscious and it's difficult to forget, despite what others tell you. it's just difficult to put oneself out there and lay ones cards on the table honestly that you are looking for companionship when others make more of a game out of it and do better. it hurts.
 
Old 01-04-2013, 12:54 PM
 
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lol I know what you mean but there's still a few good ones out there man..

I do have to admit I truely hate obvious slutty girls / attention whoring girls....
 
Old 01-04-2013, 12:59 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Nice guy alert.
 
Old 01-04-2013, 01:01 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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Originally Posted by JustJulia View Post
Nice guy alert.
No I'm not going to say I'm a nice guy because I am not. I'm a douchebag who tried to be nice, but is a real sleazebag deep down. I'm not being sarcastic here
 
Old 01-04-2013, 01:04 PM
 
Location: Way up high
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Yes I have been in that situation before and thats why I started dating my cat. It's been bliss for us for over 3 years now...
 
Old 01-04-2013, 01:05 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Originally Posted by DavieJ89 View Post
No I'm not going to say I'm a nice guy because I am not. I'm a douchebag who tried to be nice, but is a real sleazebag deep down. I'm not being sarcastic here
Okay. It's good that you are honest with yourself. Are you really surprised that women don't want to be with a sleazebag douchebag who tried to fool them into thinking he was nice? That sounds terrible when I say that but you just told me that.

A woman is not going to complete you and make you into something you are not. Work on that and I think the rest will follow.
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