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Ita fairly hard for a guy to be a ONS material as well as BF material, at the same time. The reason for that, are antiquated social views of dating. If a girl is attracted to you, but doesnt think you are a long term material, she will sleep with you right away, but you'll never see her again. On the other hand, if she is attracted to you and thinks you are great long term material, more often than not she wont sleep with you on the first date. This is why "bad boys" can easily get laid anytime they wish and move on to the next one, while guys who have their **** together, are usually made to wait 90 days or some other nonsense. But that goes for the majority of the herd, and there are plenty of excpetions. The girl Im in a relationship now, slept with me on the first date, just like most women would. In your case, it very well may be the demographics. If you are 27 and assuming you are dating girls in their early 20s, most attractive girls in that age group need to get their **** out, by sleeping around and having fun, before entertaining anything serious.
That's easier said than done. Just because you are being what someone wants on paper, doesn't mean that they want to be with you....
Of course not. Because mans behavior means everything as far as attracting a woman, you must display these qualities through real life action. Saying you are responsible is nice, but acting responsibly is whats really wanted.
Of course not. Because mans behavior means everything as far as attracting a woman, you must display these qualities through real life action. Saying you are responsible is nice, but acting responsibly is whats really wanted.
Anyone else in the same boat? The highest number of dates I've been on with one girl is two dates. I usually just get one or two dates then after that I get ignored. On the bright side I've had about 10 one night stands (I'm 27), but I can't get anything remotely long term.
Is it your voice? I know some girls that just cannot stand some guys voice and this is what happened to them. Keep in mind i'm not there so i'm just guessing. Overall we just want to help don't take offensive to this. Could be breathe as well; Was any of your second dates....ya'kno.... that type of date? I'm really not to sure; My advice is quite invalid cause usually i'm the one that breaks it off early.
I meant it can be as simple as you are what I'm looking for, but I'm just not attracted to you. There's really nothing you can do about that. By paper, I mean, a roof over your head, a car, job, and possible education if that is needed.
Attraction is one way that you can look over a lot of smudges; however, without attraction, you really aren't focused on the perfectly clean piece of paper.
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that type of date? I'm really not to sure; My advice is quite invalid cause usually i'm the one that breaks it off early.
