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I've dated 2 women, respectively 7 and 8 years, older than me. One admitted her age, the other lied (and I never would have guessed that she lied). I was friends with the candid ex-gf years after breaking up, and I don't talk to the person who lied.
I just don't know how we could expect a long-term relationship, sharing finances and legal documents, if you lie about something as simple as your age. Lies of any kind are a huge turn-off at best, usually a deal-breaker. If you have to have your lies, make sure it's something that I'll never find out about, or anything that I don't need to know about.
You are really funny. She is 35 years old. If that isn't old, then i don't know what you're speaking about. Make sure to know that they'd need at least one year to get to know each other. Another nine months to have a child, make it a year. 37 year old delivering a child. Check out what you're speaking. The guy SHOULD think about it if he's serious at all. Maybe they don't speak about it in your house regarding all the problems, miscarriages, or even children with problems that even modern technology won't be able to scan during pregnancy, which can affect their lives.
Is this a problem?
I delivered my third child at the age of 37. The pregnancy was great, and I worked out right up until the day I delivered, as I had during my first two pregnancies. I ate an extremely healthy diet (always do), and lived a pretty clean life, overall. I was back into my regular clothes within 2 to 3 weeks, as I was the first two times around.
More importantly, my baby was born strong and healthy, is now a gorgeous 10-year-old boy who excels in school and sports, and is one of the most loving kids on the planet (and I'm not just saying that because I'm his mom ).
You know, prior to a couple of generations ago, women routinely had babies well into their 40s. Yes, it's true that a woman over the age of 40 has a STATISTICALLY higher chance of a complicated pregnancy and/or delivering a baby with developmental differences. MOST, however, give birth to perfectly healthy babies.
You also refer to "your" country. Which country would this be, exactly? Just curious.
Last edited by newdixiegirl; 06-24-2014 at 07:07 PM..
25-35 is not that bad i think.
Maybe 25-35 and up feels more natural than less age than that.
Example, im 30 and i would never date a 20 year old, he would be like A CHILD to me. But i can easily date 40 years old. And maybe when im 37 i wont have problems in dating a 27.
Yes, Sophie, take it from a woman who NEVER thought she'd ever be interested in a younger man. When I was in my 20s and 30s, I always preferred older men. Then, when I hit my 40s, something inside me shifted dramatically.
I would certainly still date an older man who had taken care of himself physically, mentally, and emotionally, but I'm most attracted to men a few years younger than I.
You'll get there, too. Trust me on this.
Last edited by newdixiegirl; 06-24-2014 at 07:41 PM..
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Maybe the question should be: would she date YOU if she were that much older???? Why is it that men seem to think they are doing someone older a favor..or "overlooking" the "problem" of an older woman? Trust me, I have younger men ALL THE TIME wanting to be with me.
My partner is 12+ years younger than me....works for us. Dont under estimate older women who simply get tired of some of the young guys thinking they are doing us a favor. Many of us have ample opportunity.
Last edited by FlightAttendant; 06-24-2014 at 08:13 PM..
I agree, I have no interest in older women, they must be younger than the man
Ive seen couples when the guy almost looks young enough to be the ladies son, looks weird when the lady is noticably older than the guy.
or if the lady is bigger than the man
Women in their mid 30's - early 40's I've known and met just look old.
I'm sure there are some young looking older women but they're a rare find.
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A decent looking 25 y.o. guy has choices. 
