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Old 01-31-2013, 08:15 AM
 
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When women are at the peak of their attractivness age and have 5 or 6 guys chasing them all the time, they choose to have sex with bad boys. There is simply more excitment and guaranteed emotional rollercoaster, which women choose over no emotional stimulation from mr nice guy. What is interesting, is that women will often sleep with the bad boy right away, precisely because they dont see him as a relationship material. Few years go by, and when they are no longer chased by many guys, they settle for a mr nice guy, whos steady paycheck and boring lifestyle all of a sudden arent that unattractive. Oddly enough, they make their new guy wait for sex and walk around with blue balls for 90 days or some other nonsense, precisely because he is relationship material. THats real world stuff.
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Old 01-31-2013, 08:20 AM
 
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When women are at the peak of their attractivness age and have 5 or 6 guys chasing them all the time, they choose to have sex with bad boys. There is simply more excitment and guaranteed emotional rollercoaster, which women choose over no emotional stimulation from mr nice guy. What is interesting, is that women will often sleep with the bad boy right away, precisely because they dont see him as a relationship material. Few years go by, and when they are no longer chased by many guys, they settle for a mr nice guy, whos steady paycheck and boring lifestyle all of a sudden arent that unattractive. Oddly enough, they make their new guy wait for sex and walk around with blue balls for 90 days or some other nonsense, precisely because he is relationship material. THats real world stuff.
Lol. Not all.
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Old 01-31-2013, 08:32 AM
 
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When women are at the peak of their attractivness age and have 5 or 6 guys chasing them all the time, they choose to have sex with bad boys. There is simply more excitment and guaranteed emotional rollercoaster, which women choose over no emotional stimulation from mr nice guy. What is interesting, is that women will often sleep with the bad boy right away, precisely because they dont see him as a relationship material. Few years go by, and when they are no longer chased by many guys, they settle for a mr nice guy, whos steady paycheck and boring lifestyle all of a sudden arent that unattractive. Oddly enough, they make their new guy wait for sex and walk around with blue balls for 90 days or some other nonsense, precisely because he is relationship material. THats real world stuff.
Broad generalization, but I agree this is pretty much true. Let's face it though -- this isn't about "bad" boys; it's about attractive boys. Good looking people can afford to be more flippant in regards to other people, hence the label "bad." This isn't always the case, but it often is. Girls give attractive guys quick and easy sex. As they get older, they become more interested in a stable, secure future, so they start to take an interest in guys who aren't as attractive but who treat them better. Of course they dont' jump in bed with these guys right away. They have to take awhile to work themselves up to the idea of sex with them.
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Old 01-31-2013, 08:49 AM
 
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Broad generalization, but I agree this is pretty much true. Let's face it though -- this isn't about "bad" boys; it's about attractive boys. Good looking people can afford to be more flippant in regards to other people, hence the label "bad." This isn't always the case, but it often is. Girls give attractive guys quick and easy sex. As they get older, they become more interested in a stable, secure future, so they start to take an interest in guys who aren't as attractive but who treat them better. Of course they dont' jump in bed with these guys right away. They have to take awhile to work themselves up to the idea of sex with them.
I dont think attractivness has anything to do with it. Physical appearance means only so much to women, and is usually a #3 or #4 requiremet on their personal list of what they respond to in a possible mate. There are attractive and unattractive bad boys and nice guys. Its more about attraction to that individual, which is based more on bahavior rather than looks. A woman who finds a bad boy attractive, but doesnt think he is a relationship material, will usually sleep with him right away. Of course when we talk about bad boys and nice guys we are thinking of extremes, when in reality most guys fall somewhere in between on that spectrum. I do agree witht he second part of your post.
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Old 01-31-2013, 08:55 AM
 
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girls that go after bad boys usually dont really have much to offer other than their looks
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Old 01-31-2013, 09:14 AM
 
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Women like bad boys and dangerous men. Fact or fiction? ???
If so, why?
Oh my god, you've nailed it. Every single women on this planet LOVES those bad boys who beat us and treat us mean. Yep, all of us, even those of us who aren't with bad boys wish we were and we secretly send letters to murderers and rapists in prison begging them to love us.

Yep, you caught us
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Old 01-31-2013, 09:18 AM
 
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Oh my god, you've nailed it. Every single women on this planet LOVES those bad boys who beat us and treat us mean. Yep, all of us, even those of us who aren't with bad boys wish we were and we secretly send letters to murderers and rapists in prison begging them to love us.

Yep, you caught us
Yep, that is why murderers who are locked up in prison and currently on death row attract substantialy more women who are willing to marry them, than an average mr nice guy. You live in a fantasy world lady, try reality for a change.
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Old 01-31-2013, 09:33 AM
 
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Grown men using the term "bad boy" is just sad.
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Old 01-31-2013, 09:35 AM
 
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Bad boys bad boys what ya going to do when they come for you.....
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Old 01-31-2013, 09:37 AM
 
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Yep, that is why murderers who are locked up in prison and currently on death row attract substantialy more women who are willing to marry them, than an average mr nice guy. You live in a fantasy world lady, try reality for a change.
And what kind of women are they attracting? Neurotic pieces of work like Ayn Rand? And she was faaar more intelligent than the majority of these kinds of women, I'm sure.
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