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Old 01-31-2013, 12:35 PM
 
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I used to think that too. Then I started observing what women do, not what they say (something you advocate). They are just as subsceptible to physical beauty as we are. They just lie about it so they don't seem shallow. You can't beat biology. Looks will take you very far -- male or female.
Looks matter to women, but are simply are not as important as womans looks to men. For men it is easily the #1 attractant, for most women #3 or #4. A super confident and assertive man, does not need looks in order to attract even those of most attractive of females. Not to mention, there is nothing shallow about being attracted to physical appearance. It is biology human instinct and happens completely at the subconscious level
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Old 01-31-2013, 12:55 PM
 
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Thats true, I would rather not sleep with a woman right away, but they usualy insist. All the women i dated in the last year or so, wanted it bad, on the first date. I can guarantee you that half of them would never admit to it, just like female posters on CDR. I am pretty sure im not a woman, i just know women and know what they really want and what they respond to.
So you're a bad boy that women don't see as relationship material? (According to your previous post.)

"Pretty sure?" Better check.
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Old 01-31-2013, 01:44 PM
 
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Looks matter to women, but are simply are not as important as womans looks to men. For men it is easily the #1 attractant, for most women #3 or #4. A super confident and assertive man, does not need looks in order to attract even those of most attractive of females. Not to mention, there is nothing shallow about being attracted to physical appearance. It is biology human instinct and happens completely at the subconscious level

Dude, that theory, to the extent it's even true (which is highly arguable) has its limits. A fat, sweatty, nasty looking guy can not get pretty girls by simply being confident and assertive. If he's not at least rich or famous (then he can attract lots of aspiring trophy wives/wannabe sugar babies) that ain't gonna work.

Sometimes you get an AVERAGE looking guy who dresses well or has a bad-boy sheen to him (or moody artist, or something like that) who can "pull beyond their grade" reguarly to speak, but that is not the same as saying any dude can get very attractive girls by just acting like they desrve them. Nope.
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Old 01-31-2013, 02:02 PM
 
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Heard it on an American telecast.
Heard it on the Italian channel.
Within 6 months of each other.

Women are more likely to be attracted to the bad boy/thug type when ovulating, but more likely to be satisfied with their beta provider when the cycle is over, according to PSYCHOLOGICAL STUDIES.

Humans are just friggin' animals with a better functioning brain. Is it any wonder that the typical person is attracted to what is an exemplary specimen of the other gender on a very primal level? Get real, folks. Kick the PC-ness to the curb.
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Old 01-31-2013, 02:45 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Heard it on an American telecast.
Heard it on the Italian channel.
Within 6 months of each other.

Women are more likely to be attracted to the bad boy/thug type when ovulating, but more likely to be satisfied with their beta provider when the cycle is over, according to PSYCHOLOGICAL STUDIES.

Humans are just friggin' animals with a better functioning brain. Is it any wonder that the typical person is attracted to what is an exemplary specimen of the other gender on a very primal level? Get real, folks. Kick the PC-ness to the curb.
Rawr.
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Old 01-31-2013, 02:54 PM
 
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So you're a bad boy that women don't see as relationship material? (According to your previous post.)

"Pretty sure?" Better check.
Im only a bad boy in the bedroom department and women love every second of it. I dont think im much of a relationship material, because i dont pay attention to societal norms or expectations. That contrasts too much with what most women want in a relationship, sameness.
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Old 01-31-2013, 03:12 PM
 
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It's a sliding scale. The younger a woman is, the more likely she is due to some weird and infantile notions of romanticism.
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Old 01-31-2013, 03:16 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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So sorry, but I cannot speak for every womyn there is, do you know how many females are out there

As for me, I do not like the dangerous bad boy type. I like a man that has great personality, adventurous, still possesses some of his boyish mischievious menatlity, is humorous, romantic, and is responsible in every way.
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Old 01-31-2013, 03:26 PM
 
Location: Pa
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So sorry, but I cannot speak for every womyn there is, do you know how many females are out there

As for me, I do not like the dangerous bad boy type. I like a man that has great personality, adventurous, still possesses some of his boyish mischievious menatlity, is humorous, romantic, and is responsible in every way.
Yep the nerds are good. Just need to teach them how to have fun.
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Old 01-31-2013, 03:41 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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Yep the nerds are good. Just need to teach them how to have fun.

Oh I know some nerds that ummmm

Yea, they are ummmm

Very fun??

But I was just talking about a man in general. And yes ladies are attracted to handsome sexy males

I do admit that I attract Alpha dudes a lot and they really get under my skin when I'm ovulating. But confident, suave, stealthy males get my motor going!
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