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I and my husband went out with friends last week. We jumped from one bar to another bar. All of us were a bit tipsy. As we kept walking to go to another bar, he ( my husband )really stared and turned his head as the woman ( wearing with so revealing dress ) passed by. I really felt bad and was so angry. I felt insulted why he did it. I'll understand if he did it when I wasn't there with him and friends. He did the same thing before. We had few fights in the past because he dictated me on what to wear. He sometimes verbally abused me like calling me b***h etch..
He always watch porn when I am not around ( which is ok ) but he is really bad in bed. Lucky if we have sex 3 times a week. He is even boring. He doesn't like to go out. He just want to sit his ass on the couch on weekends. He can't decide on his own without asking one of his close family member.
We did talk. We both promise to work things out, but I don't see any difference. My mind says to break up with him but my heart says no.
There was this one time that he lied to me and I found it out myself. but he still denied until I showed him the evidence. until now, everything still fresh in my mind how good he was when it comes to lying.
Actually, he is nice to me. I am confused right now, I wanna break up with him. Honestly, I am not ugly and I'm pretty enough for him. His friends asked him how we met. I know that grass is always not greener.
Life is too short to make my life miserable. I know this is just too little things but I don't want to regret in the near future.
Do you guys believe that the true colour of a person comes out when he's/she's drunk?
Yeah noticing another woman isn't the end of the world, but it is rude that he makes it so obvious in front of you. Humans are visual creatures, women look as well. However, being controlling and verbally abusive are deal breakers. I would suggest to him that he needs to enter counseling immediately and change his ways or find himself in divorce court.
I and my husband went out with friends last week. We jumped from one bar to another bar. All of us were a bit tipsy. As we kept walking to go to another bar, he ( my husband )really stared and turned his head as the woman ( wearing with so revealing dress ) passed by. I really felt bad and was so angry. I felt insulted why he did it. I'll understand if he did it when I wasn't there with him and friends. He did the same thing before. We had few fights in the past because he dictated me on what to wear. He sometimes verbally abused me like calling me b***h etch..
He always watch porn when I am not around ( which is ok ) but he is really bad in bed. Lucky if we have sex 3 times a week. He is even boring. He doesn't like to go out. He just want to sit his ass on the couch on weekends. He can't decide on his own without asking one of his close family member.
We did talk. We both promise to work things out, but I don't see any difference. My mind says to break up with him but my heart says no.
There was this one time that he lied to me and I found it out myself. but he still denied until I showed him the evidence. until now, everything still fresh in my mind how good he was when it comes to lying.
Actually, he is nice to me. I am confused right now, I wanna break up with him. Honestly, I am not ugly and I'm pretty enough for him. His friends asked him how we met. I know that grass is always not greener.
Life is too short to make my life miserable. I know this is just too little things but I don't want to regret in the near future.
Do you guys believe that the true colour of a person comes out when he's/she's drunk?
All I have to do is read until the point where you said that you don't mind him staring at other chicks when you aren't around, and that him watching porno is 'ok' to you. You let this happen to yourself. You shouldn't be mad at him for staring at a scantily clad woman if it's ok for him to do it in your mind when you aren't around. Maybe don't go out with him in public if this is his nature. You married the beast and know/knew what he was about, so don't punish him for being himself. Sorry you got hurt, but sometimes people bring things on themselves.
Yeah noticing another woman isn't the end of the world, but it is rude that he makes it so obvious in front of you. Humans are visual creatures, women look as well. However, being controlling and verbally abusive are deal breakers. I would suggest to him that he needs to enter counseling immediately and change his ways or find himself in divorce court.
It really was rude. I do see good looking guys too but never turn my head/back just to check them out. I just wanna leave him. He's even jealous to my classmates ( girls ) everytime they send me sweet messages. I don't think he'll go for counseling If I ask him. :-(
Wow you have married pretty quick for someone who was single and seeking not long ago......hmmmmm
We were on and off for a couple of months last year when I posted the ad :-(
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