F-Buddies doesn't work for me (sex)

[jman07]

I've been in a Fbuddies relationship for about 3 months now. It started with a one night stand, then evolved into a once weekend ****. The sex is amazing, but now she's starting to turn it into a relationship. She's already brought it up twice and I said "I'm happy with now things are now."

[Royalite]

I feel you Dr. Earth.

It's so much more meaningful and valuable when you feel that connection to the person. I can't imagine ever considering trying out this idea again. For me, it's too physically driven and not emotional and spiritual enough.

[srjth]

May i suggest a little restraint and self control? You'll find that it builds character and does the opposite of desensitizing you.

[TaoistDude]

Originally Posted by DrEarth

Well, I did it again. I had sex with another woman I have no connection with, or even anything to talk about.

Sheesh, it sounds like marriage!

[mainebrokerman]

Originally Posted by srjth

May i suggest a little restraint and self control? You'll find that it builds character and does the opposite of desensitizing you.

The couples cling and claw, and drown in loves' debris

[srjth]

Originally Posted by mainebrokerman

The couples cling and claw, and drown in loves' debris

[LS Jaun]

Originally Posted by BradPiff

It's very valuable. Not everyone has time to wait and see for that right person to have sex with. Sometimes you just want to bang an attractive person and FWB is perfect for that

Even though I have not had a FWB relationship I'm sure there are many instances where it could be just right. Just because you have sexual needs doesn't mean your ready for a long term relationship with the first Tom or Sally that comes along. Sometimes liking someone and being attracted to them is fine. I remember a girl when I first started going out that told me if you say you Love me I'll go to bed with you. I was like "WTF" why would I say that just to have sex with someone

And many people fool themselves and say they are in love only to find out they can't stand the person they are sleeping with. I would take the FWB over many of these so called relationships.

[DrEarth]

Originally Posted by srjth

May i suggest a little restraint and self control? You'll find that it builds character and does the opposite of desensitizing you.

I had self control for a few months. It is unrealistic for me to wait until I find a relationship. That might be two years. Who knows.

I would settle for a FWB I like.

[srjth]

Originally Posted by DrEarth

I had self control for a few months. It is unrealistic for me to wait until I find a relationship. That might be two years. Who knows.

I would settle for a FWB I like.

Are you coming onto me? jk

[mir86]

Enjoy the sex DrEarth!