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Old 02-17-2013, 10:29 PM
 
Location: In an indoor space
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weak. you think that has any relevance to guys who masterbate fantasy or porn? It maybe "empty" but physically satisfying, at least for the moment. No doubt, sex/intimacy combined with emotions/love is more fulfilling, but as Mic Jagger says "you can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes you get what you need!"
Use and conquer then?

Call that great if you wish, but I don't agree.
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Old 02-17-2013, 10:31 PM
 
Location: Pa
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When I went in for my last reformatting, the manufacturer said there has been a recall on my unit. He told me if I don't address the issue, I will begin having these sensations he called "feelings".
I thought you sounded a lot like #5, Johnny 5.
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Old 02-18-2013, 10:16 PM
 
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The key to a successful eff buddy is to find someone you a connection with! After that everything just falls into place!
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Old 02-19-2013, 10:47 AM
 
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The key to a successful eff buddy is to find someone you a connection with! After that everything just falls into place!
I consider that a FWB if there is a connection, which I have no issue with.
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Old 02-19-2013, 10:57 AM
 
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It's very valuable. Not everyone has time to wait and see for that right person to have sex with. Sometimes you just want to bang an attractive person and FWB is perfect for that
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Old 02-21-2013, 07:48 PM
 
Location: PA/NJ
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It's very valuable. Not everyone has time to wait and see for that right person to have sex with. Sometimes you just want to bang an attractive person and FWB is perfect for that
If they can actually get it. The odds of finding an attractive person who's actually looking for that situation are pretty high in my experience.
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Old 02-21-2013, 08:01 PM
 
Location: Minneapolis (St. Louis Park)
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Sex without emotions is NOTHING like sex with the emotions, and if you are head-over-heels in love with that person and that person with you, then I imagine that is probably the best feeling that life has to offer!
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Old 02-21-2013, 08:03 PM
 
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I've had a number of FWB throughout the years, as well as one-night-stands. However, I have not had a F-buddy type of arrangement before, until recently.

We had sex the first time meeting, but her personality really turned me off. I believe she felt the same way, and it turned into something where she would come over, little talking, and right to business.

Anyway, after a few nights of this, I chose to end it. I suppose what I learned, is that I must have somewhat of a connection with a woman, whether FWB or a relationship. I'm over the one nighters for the most part.

That is all. I'm bored, so I thought I'd share.
Glad to hear.
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Old 02-21-2013, 08:37 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I've had a number of FWB throughout the years, as well as one-night-stands. However, I have not had a F-buddy type of arrangement before, until recently.

We had sex the first time meeting, but her personality really turned me off. I believe she felt the same way, and it turned into something where she would come over, little talking, and right to business.

Anyway, after a few nights of this, I chose to end it. I suppose what I learned, is that I must have somewhat of a connection with a woman, whether FWB or a relationship. I'm over the one nighters for the most part.

That is all. I'm bored, so I thought I'd share.
Yeah, I agree...... some shallow sex is fine...

I just find in general, I need to be with a woman that I connect with.... I sometimes find it sad that soooo many people just have meaningless sex... but to each their own....
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Old 04-16-2013, 03:58 PM
 
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Well, I did it again. I had sex with another woman I have no connection with, or even anything to talk about. The sex was good, but afterward, I just wanted her to leave.

I would like a relationship, but I also have needs. That is why I keep doing the same thing!
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