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As my title says I logged his Craigs list account and he had a personal add seeking gay sex posted earlier this month.. He claims his email account got hacked but it used his everyday password. Had his height, weight, and penis size correct. So of course I don't believe him.
My problem is I love him. I don't want to be alone so I'm trying to forget it and move on and try again. But its really bugging me. I have no clue if he acted on it or if nothing ever happened.
Should I try? Should I leave? Should I give him another chance? I don't know if I could ever trust him again... am I being stupid for staying..?
As my title says I logged his Craigs list account and he had a personal add seeking gay sex posted earlier this month.. He claims his email account got hacked but it used his everyday password. Had his height, weight, and penis size correct. So of course I don't believe him.
My problem is I love him. I don't want to be alone so I'm trying to forget it and move on and try again. But its really bugging me. I have no clue if he acted on it or if nothing ever happened.
Should I try? Should I leave? Should I give him another chance? I don't know if I could ever trust him again... am I being stupid for staying..?
Your husband?
Some men don't appreciate having a wife (or whatever the two of you agreed your relationship would be) and probably most women don't know how to pick a good man and always seem to overlook/reject/ignore the right guy in favor of the guy who looks like the winner but turns out to be a loser.
I know it must be heartbreaking but if I were in your position I would leave you will only continue to get hurt if you stay. I'm not saying cut him out of your life completely if you want to stay friends but I would suggest he go and speak to a therapist he's obviously confused. Good luck
As my title says I logged his Craigs list account and he had a personal add seeking gay sex posted earlier this month.. He claims his email account got hacked but it used his everyday password. Had his height, weight, and penis size correct. So of course I don't believe him.
My problem is I love him. I don't want to be alone so I'm trying to forget it and move on and try again. But its really bugging me. I have no clue if he acted on it or if nothing ever happened.
Should I try? Should I leave? Should I give him another chance? I don't know if I could ever trust him again... am I being stupid for staying..?
Then you'll have to accept the consequences. Obviously you had some inkling that something wasn't quite "right" which prompted you to snoop and hack into his account. Now you know.
Either he is gay or Bi, why should he seek therapy? How is he any different from any other cheating spouse? Just because he seeking a man and not a woman? Leave him or stay and be hurt, your choice.
If this has only happened once, I'd accept it but be especially vigilant from here on out. If he ever gives you another reason to be suspicious then move on. Life's too short to risk for an STD that could kill you, with a straight, bi or gay spouse.
Now how can we help you? It's your life...I'd say talk to him...
Does the gay part matter any more than if it were a woman? More so? Or less so? Because, if he has those urges, obviously you wouldn't be able to satisfy them...does that lead to understanding or condemnation? It's your moral compass after all...
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