Dating Someone You're Emotionally Attacted to, But not Physically Attracted To.. (attractiveness, advice)

[garonick]

Originally Posted by JetJockey

I disagree to a point... I do believe people are looking for compatibility and to others that may look like seeking perfection. In reality, I'm not going to be with someone I don't like. It's that simple. I don't want someone to settle for being with me because they feel they can't do any better or they don't actually like me but feel they should settle down with the first person who comes along. That's just insulting.

I get rejected for my looks all the time and would absolutely LOVE to be a 'plain jane'. Some people are just going to have a harder time for it...but I keep telling myself if my 300 lb a-hole cousin with 3 DUIs can get a good wife, anyone can. She adores him and vice versa, so there may be hope even for people like me

Let's exchange pictures.

Try me.

[garonick]

Originally Posted by Prince_Frog

I think most people are holding out for something perfect. Which is why the average joes and he plain janes of the world aren't appealing.

A man who admits the truth behind the façade!

[Beacon of Truth]

Originally Posted by Prince_Frog

I think most people are holding out for something perfect. Which is why the average joes and he plain janes of the world aren't appealing.

Average Joes and he Plain Janes of the world are very appealing, just not at 300 pounds.

[Rhenzanite]

Originally Posted by garonick

Let's exchange pictures.

Try me.

No thank you. I don't need validation from an angry internet dude.

And really, it doesn't matter one lick what you look like, your attitude is what makes you unattractive and looks have nothing to do with it.

[garonick]

Originally Posted by JetJockey

No thank you. I don't need validation from an angry internet dude.

But you might need a great love from a very pleased man in person.

[Rhenzanite]

Originally Posted by garonick

But you might need a great love from a very pleased man in person.

Please see my edited post.

And telling me what I 'need' is irritating.

[garonick]

Originally Posted by JetJockey

No thank you. I don't need validation from an angry internet dude.

And really, it doesn't matter one lick what you look like, your attitude is what makes you unattractive and looks have nothing to do with it.

I never had an angry attitude towards a woman who liked me so give it a chance, we might be who we are looking for.

[Rhenzanite]

Originally Posted by garonick

I never had an angry attitude towards a woman who liked me so give it a chance, we might be who we are looking for.

Again, your attitude doesn't mesh with mine. So no thank you.

And I'm not looking for anyone right now.

[garonick]

Originally Posted by Beacon of Truth

Average Joes and he Plain Janes of the world are very appealing, just not at 300 pounds.

Sure they are.

[garonick]

Originally Posted by JetJockey

And I'm not looking for anyone right now.

Neither am I. I just do this for the typing practice.