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Maybe he views you as a simply as a casual friend.
Maybe any of dozens of other reasons.
There is not a man (or woman) on earth worth getting this worked up about. The fact that you are coming across so desperate will definitely chase him away.
He seemed happy to give me a ride home but I'm thinking somewhere midstream things went wrong. I probably said something REALLY dumb in the car that turned him off. I am not going to be able to sleep tonight. what if I see him tomorrow and he doesn't give me a ride home?? I dont know what to do. Its not everyday I meet a guy that I really really like
He seemed happy to give me a ride home but I'm thinking somewhere midstream things went wrong. I probably said something REALLY dumb in the car that turned him off. I am not going to be able to sleep tonight. what if I see him tomorrow and he doesn't give me a ride home?? I dont know what to do. Its not everyday I meet a guy that I really really like
Ask him to give you a ride home and see if he can come inside? Talk to him. Find out if he's got a girl etc. If not, make some sort of obvious sign to make it seem you're interested. I remember my previous ex grabbed my hand while driving and held it, which gave me an obvious sign
I am pretty confused. It sounds like you see him often (do you work together) so quite honestly there would have been no reason for him to ask for your phone number since he knows you are going to see each other again. You seem to think that being given a ride obligates a number exchange.
Just relax. It might turn into a natural thing where he starts to give you rides and eventually you guys take it further. Plenty of romances start off low key and a few weeks later the guy ends up asking for a number or a date. However, the quickest way to discourage him from giving you a ride again would be for him to discover that you assumed this mean he immidiately wanted to jump your pants.
I've done that before and it didn't work out. It's best that he asks me for MY number. but I have a feeling he wont. I just hate that I have a crush on this guy. It's driving me crazy
lol I can't tell whether or not this is a troll thread.
If you're being serious; how does that make any sense? Something didn't work once, therefore it follows that it must never work.
As a women you don't really have to be forward, since guys are usually the ones that stick their necks on the line and ask you out. However, if you're dead set on one particular guy, and that guy happens not to be forward, well then you'll have to take the risk....either that, or move on.
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He seemed happy to give me a ride home but I'm thinking somewhere midstream things went wrong. I probably said something REALLY dumb in the car that turned him off. I am not going to be able to sleep tonight. what if I see him tomorrow and he doesn't give me a ride home?? I dont know what to do. Its not everyday I meet a guy that I really really like
I hope he runs like hell if this is truly who you are.
lol I can't tell whether or not this is a troll thread.
If you're being serious; how does that make any sense? Something didn't work once, therefore it follows that it must never work.
As a women you don't really have to be forward, since guys are usually the ones that stick their necks on the line and ask you out. However, if you're dead set on one particular guy, and that guy happens not to be forward, well then you'll have to take the risk....either that, or move on.
I think all of her threads are troll threads. Goating us along while giggling behind her keyboard. I can't believe someone can really function like this.
OP you should bring up your intimacy issues with him.
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