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My ideal woman is a white woman who can produce black babies.
I'm mixed...so I don't have the luxury of being with a white lady and still having black kids. (1/4 black kids come out looking white, usually). But, I want my kids to be black...or really, just the boys. The girls can be white or black, I wouldn't care...but if I'm black, I want my sons to be black.
But black women, not that they're not fly...it's just the closest women in my life have always been white. So, idk....
I think you need to not have kids till you can realize the most important thing is that they are healthy, happy, and have all 10 toes and fingers. Not that they're not "fly" enough for you.
Such a girl response...
I wish I could see the world from you pov. It must be heaven...
The world I live in? I'm hanging on by a thread....
Try being a young, poor, indebted black guy in this society.
It's not easy.
No matter how hard you actually work, people'll just assume what they'll assume.
Still, I'm good with it. No worries there.
What sucks is how black women hold you to some insane standard...
if you're not thugish, rich, an athlete, into music...just some middle of world guy...black women won't give you two looks.
tell me why.
My ideal woman is a white woman who can produce black babies.
I'm mixed...so I don't have the luxury of being with a white lady and still having black kids. (1/4 black kids come out looking white, usually). But, I want my kids to be black...or really, just the boys. The girls can be white or black, I wouldn't care...but if I'm black, I want my sons to be black.
But black women, not that they're not fly...it's just the closest women in my life have always been white. So, idk....
lol. Another funny thread. I guess there's nothing I can advise you may help you to find that non existing kind of girl. You just have to decide for yourself what is more important for you - black kids or a white woman. But isn't it truth that when you love someone you love everything about that person, even its kids, regardless of what they look like and what color of skin they have? Or so I been told.
Just find yourself a woman you'll really like. You'll probably get things sorted out then.
The world I live in? I'm hanging on by a thread....
Try being a young, poor, indebted black guy in this society.
It's not easy.
No matter how hard you actually work, people'll just assume what they'll assume.
Still, I'm good with it. No worries .
You don't seem "good with it" if you brought it up. It really doesn't have anything to do with the color of your children.
Such a girl response...
I wish I could see the world from you pov. It must be heaven...
The world I live in? I'm hanging on by a thread....
Try being a young, poor, indebted black guy in this society.
It's not easy.
No matter how hard you actually work, people'll just assume what they'll assume.
Still, I'm good with it. No worries there.
What sucks is how black women hold you to some insane standard...
if you're not thugish, rich, an athlete, into music...just some middle of world guy...black women won't give you two looks.
tell me why.
So you're more worried about how "fly" your kid is gonna be (your words) than if they'll have disabilities ? U think your in debt now wait till you get a load of those medical bills... It's simple genetics man. Sometimes you get a surprise. My husbands parents are brown hair brown eyes and my husband is blue eyes blonde hair.
Btw your argument about being black, young and poor has nothing to do with much of anything. Everyone has opportunities , make the best of what you have and work hard to have better.
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