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I'm guessing if she wasn't MIA as much, he wouldn't be this way. just a guess though.
I still think that if they made plans then she should honor them, or else don't make plans with him.
Also, OP, maybe you should start busying yourself with other things and other people too. Let her come to you to suggest getting together. Maybe she'll keep her plans more that way.
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I'm guessing if she wasn't MIA as much, he wouldn't be this way. just a guess though.
I still think that if they made plans then she should honor them, or else don't make plans with him.
Also, OP, maybe you should start busying yourself with other things and other people too. Let her come to you to suggest getting together. Maybe she'll keep her plans more that way.
Can't get a good grasp of what's going on from the original post, but I'm not really seeing any red flags from the girlfriend if 1) she's just not bothering with constant contact or 2) she's not distraught when plans fall through. If she's not returning calls ever or flaking on plans, then that's disrespectful. But if she's refusing to be texting all day or getting upset because maybe the weather changed or one of you has to work late, then that's just called, ya know, SANE.
Either way, you moping and acting wounded isn't gonna win her over. Either way, you should just develop your own life, social circle and interests. If you're not happy with her, dump her, but you're not gonna shape her into the girlfriend you want. She either is or she isn't.
So i've been together with this girl for 4 months, i love this girl more than anything now but she like's to do what she wants alot and doesn't really take how i'll feel about it into consideration, she loves me too i know this but she shows it differently. When were together everything is perfect but when she's off doing her own thing she'll kinda forget to text/call and it will be like that the whole day or we'll make plans sometimes and if they don't go through she won't be as bummed as i. what i need help with is making her play her role as a girlfriend better. Anyone every in the same boat as me?
I don't know if you can love each other after only 4 months of dating. I think 4 months is way to early to start trying to make someone play their role better.
You may simply not be a very well matched pair so just give it some time and if you're not happy in the relationship, end it and find someone more compatible.
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