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We have gone out a few times. Last week, we texted back and forth about getting together this week, so today I texted him to see what the plan was:
Me: Do you want to go bowling or meet for dinner?
Him: Dinner sounds good
Me: Great! How about Saturday?
Him: I cant I have a meeting ...
Me: Ok Wednesday?
Him: I have plans plans...
Me: Ok what day works for you?
Him: I dont know yet
Me: Should we aim for next week instead?
Him: Possibly just not sure right now
Me: Ok well, why dont you text me later in the week and let me know ...
Him: Ok ... usually last minute works best
Me: Ok
I have to admit I was annoyed. Last week he said he was SURE he'd be free this week. Sorta seems like he was brushing me off, but at the beginning he wanted to meet for dinner... He also doesnt seem terribly interested in that Im always the one reaching out to him for plans.
I feel like he's not into me. Our first date was great, but the second was odd. He was cold and distant at first. Then he warmed up, and he even said he wanted to do it again cause he had such a great time. I kinda feel like the guy in this situation, and its annoying. I also feel like I came across as needy and annoying.
We have gone out a few times. Last week, we texted back and forth about getting together this week, so today I texted him to see what the plan was:
Me: Do you want to go bowling or meet for dinner?
Him: Dinner sounds good
Me: Great! How about Saturday?
Him: I cant I have a meeting ...
Me: Ok Wednesday?
Him: I have plans plans...
Me: Ok what day works for you?
Him: I dont know yet
Me: Should we aim for next week instead?
Him: Possibly just not sure right now
Me: Ok well, why dont you text me later in the week and let me know ...
Him: Ok ... usually last minute works best
Me: Ok
I have to admit I was annoyed. Last week he said he was SURE he'd be free this week. Sorta seems like he was brushing me off, but at the beginning he wanted to meet for dinner... He also doesnt seem terribly interested in that Im always the one reaching out to him for plans.
I feel like he's not into me. Our first date was great, but the second was odd. He was cold and distant at first. Then he warmed up, and he even said he wanted to do it again cause he had such a great time. I kinda feel like the guy in this situation, and its annoying. I also feel like I came across as needy and annoying.
What's your take?
Anyway to fix this?
Yeah, tell him another hot guy just called, set up a date with you. He picked the restaurant and the bowling alley to bowl at.
Sorry but if he has plans all the time then so do you!!!
Can't be fixed unless he wants to fix it. Move on. If he calls you to set anything up, you'll be pleasantly surprised. But by then, you may have found someone who's more into you. Good luck. Keep looking.
I think it's time to move on. If he really wanted to he would make time or at least say something better than it has to be last minute. You have a life too so why is it all about him.
Don't think about it, continue living your life, and let him make the next move (if there will be one).
If he never makes one, then he not into you.
(PS - it's always bad when you feel like the guy in the situation. might as well turn lesbian, lol)
This.
Move on as if he doesn't exist. Make plans, meet other guys. If he calls you, great. But don't contact him.
If he really wants to see you he'll make it happen.
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