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My ex girlfriend of 2 years ago recently called me to tell me she was living with a guy. We broke up 2 years ago so I dont care but here is what it is. When we broke up she was immediately dating a new guy within 2 weeks. They were together the last 2 years and I would occassionally hear from her. Now they just broke up less than 1 1/2 months ago and she told me she is now living with a new guy and in a serious relationship? lol
This girl jumps from one serious relationship to the next with no time off. When me and her broke up I took 6 months off of dating to heal. I was not hurt by our break up nor do I hold hostility. I found that those 6 months really made me whole again and gave me an opportunity to assess what it was I was looking for and wanted. When I started dating again I had no baggage or issues to deal with since I had already dealt with it.
So what do you guys think? Time off after a break up or jump right to the next one?
I have found that the more I come to understand what women are really like, the less they live up to my idea of what I thought they were like (or should be like), and I like them all the less for it.
Any woman who breaks up with a guy and immediately starts a serious LTR with another guy was in fact was seeing those two guys at once, at some point. Basically, while she was dating guy #1, she met guy #2 and began dating both. When she realized guy #2 was better, she broke up w/ guy #1.
It sounds exhausting and moving that quick to me prevents a person from really processing their lives.
Its what I thought. She has basically been in a relationship the last 6 years with 3 different guys at 2 years a piece and has no time off in between. I couldnt do it. When her and I broke up, there were several instances were I meet a girl and never acted on it. I also had someone I was really attracted to but decided I was not ready for even going on a date.
I think anyone who jumps from one relationship to the next has other issues. They say that after the 2 year mark you really get to know the person your dating.
Her life and you should no longer care what she does with it.
I dont care. I just find it really strange.
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