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Old 06-19-2013, 11:28 PM
 
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im sure you dont, but im also certain it entails dealing with their crap which is the point being made
No it doesn't as I'm not in a relationship with them. If I was then I'd have to deal with their crap since I'm multi-dating I don't have to deal with any guy's crap. I generally do what I want, use them for my amusement/entertainment, and dump them replacing them with another whenever I'm bored.

 
Old 06-19-2013, 11:29 PM
 
Location: Georgia, on the Florida line, right above Tallahassee
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im sure you dont, but im also certain it entails dealing with their crap which is the point being made
Nailed it. Both can pay the other to go away. No crap. This is brilliant. They don't realize the other people are using them. It's win on all levels.
 
Old 06-19-2013, 11:41 PM
 
Location: Georgia, on the Florida line, right above Tallahassee
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No it doesn't as I'm not in a relationship with them. If I was then I'd have to deal with their crap since I'm multi-dating I don't have to deal with any guy's crap. I generally do what I want, use them for my amusement/entertainment, and dump them replacing them with another whenever I'm bored.
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I can see why you don't see the point in girlfriends since it seems you're not about mutual benefit but what it to be about about you which in my opinion is typical of guys as it seems most guys are completely selfish and their idea of a relationship is all about him. In my opinion it'd probably be easier and way better to have an escort than a boyfriend as it seems most guys are bitter resentful misogynists who are entitled narcissistic who put themselves on such a pedestal where their only possible flaw is that they're (too) nice. As well as in my opinion guys tend to be completely selfish and lacking as companionship, communication, and intimacy for gals so a gal would at least get a guy who puts in effort rather than complains about her nagging, whining, bitching, or think she should be telling/doing this with her girlfriend and 'let him be a man'.
Yeah, you and the OP sound really different.
 
Old 06-19-2013, 11:44 PM
 
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You're making your own rules however nah on you reciprocating to the same effect since for that to be valid you'd be dating gals and moving on to the next when you get bored. What you're doing is paying escorts to do as you want possibly due to out of being rejected, ignored, or unwanted by the gals you seek.
Free sex with girls will never remain unattached. Thats a fact and thats the real difference between our predicaments. A worthy investment if you ask me. Worth every dime!!
 
Old 06-19-2013, 11:45 PM
 
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Yeah, you and the OP sound really different.
Yeah I stated I can see why the OP doesn't see the point and I stated what the OP and I differ on- respect and how he's not reciprocating to the same effect.

Though amusing counter on a claim I never made. I'm guessing you're male.
 
Old 06-19-2013, 11:48 PM
 
Location: Georgia, on the Florida line, right above Tallahassee
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I'm guessing you can't see another world view than your own. I guess we both win. Good luck in your adventures.
 
Old 06-19-2013, 11:48 PM
 
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Free sex with girls will never remain unattached. Thats a fact and thats the real difference between our predicaments. A worthy investment if you ask me. Worth every dime!!
I don't get what you mean by 'free sex with girls will never remain unattached' do you mean 'free sex with gals who will remain unattached' as in not develop emotions or make demands since there is plenty of guys getting free sex with gals that become attached?
 
Old 06-19-2013, 11:56 PM
 
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I don't see the difference in what the OP is doing and what udolipixie is doing other than the OP is paying for it, but what does that matter, who cares if he was rejected to have free sex he is getting the same experience in the end.

Why does it matter if someone has to pay for it? He still got to have his fun just as pixie did. I actually almost chose this route because when my ex left me I was not getting hardly any female attention but luckily I found a gf, I have always had either a gf or a wife so have always had sex but when my second wife left I had a escort lined up as I don't like to masturbate to porn for very long.
 
Old 06-19-2013, 11:59 PM
 
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I don't get what you mean by 'free sex with girls will never remain unattached' do you mean 'free sex with gals who will remain unattached' as in not develop emotions or make demands since there is plenty of guys getting free sex with gals that become attached?
Free sex with girls will more often lead to some level of attachment and demand(s) than it would vice versa. Some guys would def get attached. But generally, the dynamics become more complex with women. They misread this as security and grounding in their life. I see it every day.

So as a guy, the "im getting it free" card doesnt hold much value nor significance to me. I suspect perhaps thats something some girls tell themselves to avoid feeling whores

Again, paying is much better choice.
 
Old 06-20-2013, 12:01 AM
 
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Free sex with girls will more often lead to some level of attachment and demand(s) than it would vice versa. Some guys would def get attached. But generally, the dynamics become more complex with women. They misread this as security and grounding in their life. I see it every day.

So as a guy, the "im getting it free" card doesnt hold much value nor significance to me. I suspect perhaps thats something some girls tell themselves to avoid feeling whores

Again, paying is much better choice.
But even if you had to pay because you could not get it free does it really matter? Your getting it and getting it how you want it so what difference does it make? The trick is finding affordable escorts so that you don't break the bank if you like having sex often, that is the real crux of the matter, I have seen bill rates up to 300/hr that's not really sustainable, you would have to find one for 50 an encounter unless your making way more than me and that's highly unlikely.
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