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Old 07-07-2013, 12:27 PM
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Why not? If 50% of the messages she was receiving were from guys trying to hook up with her, maybe she got frustrated and put that at the end of her profile.

I just don't get what the big deal is...if you don't like it, move on and don't contact her. Problem solved!

I was just shocked that a women actually thought she was saying something BIG by bragging about several sex partners

 
Old 07-07-2013, 12:29 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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From what you wrote, I must have missed the bragging part. I think you're reading things into it.
 
Old 07-07-2013, 12:30 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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I was just shocked that a women actually thought she was saying something BIG by bragging about several sex partners
I doubt she thought she was saying something "big" or bragging. She just mentioned she can get sex when she wants and, therefore, doesn't need a bunch of losers sending her sexual messages as first contact. What's so awful about that?
 
Old 07-07-2013, 12:33 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Her profile probably worked as intended - it deterred you, after all. It sounds like she's looking for a relationship, not just sex.
 
Old 07-07-2013, 12:44 PM
 
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I was just shocked that a women actually thought she was saying something BIG by bragging about several sex partners

Yes, that kind of behavior should be reserved for men! Come on, ladies, back to the nunnery.
 
Old 07-07-2013, 12:44 PM
 
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At the bottom of her profile she was saying that don't send her any messages for sex requests because she is not on the site looking for a sex buddy because she has enough friends

So this stupid women is admitting that she has the option to have sex anytime she wants and preferred to find a guy to be in a relationship with?


I have seen it ALL now. LOL. Disgusting.com
Link plz or it didn't happen!
 
Old 07-07-2013, 12:45 PM
 
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Her profile probably worked as intended - it deterred you, after all. It sounds like she's looking for a relationship, not just sex.
The funny part is that the guys actually looking for a hookup wont be deterred by it, not one bit. Most men have learned that it's not what a woman says but what her actions are.

Her comment is just a tongue in cheek comment but I could see where it could be off putting to some dudes who are genuinely looking for a relationship, maybe she could prob. write it diff or say it another way?
 
Old 07-07-2013, 12:49 PM
 
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The funny part is that the guys actually looking for a hookup wont be deterred by it, not one bit.
I agree, but mostly because so many guys don't even read the profiles.
 
Old 07-07-2013, 12:53 PM
 
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Saying you have the option to have sex with plenty of men isn't cute............AT ALL
But she is being honest. I have the option of having sex with plenty of men too so I would say so. No, I'm not interested in that but if I wanted no strings sex there's this hot 25 year old guy who wants to have sex with me. I would rather have sex with him if I chose over some fat slob I don't know.
 
Old 07-07-2013, 12:57 PM
 
Location: Windham County, VT
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Why not? If 50% of the messages she was receiving were from guys trying to hook up with her, maybe she got frustrated and put that at the end of her profile.

I just don't get what the big deal is...if you don't like it, move on and don't contact her. Problem solved!
This^

I don't consider the msg. in profile to be a big deal.
It's there to weed out guys looking for casual hook-ups/ONS.
Seems quite sensible, IMHO. I don't get why it's even "a thing".
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