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I have never had a profile online for any dating sites, but from what I gather women receive emails or messages all the time from guys wanting a FWB relationship or just wanting sex period. That would get pretty old, so I can see why she might have written that.
is how online dating (and what msgs. I've gotten) seems like to me (I'm ISO an LTR).
Don't know if expectations/impatience are any different offline, though, either.
The sad thing is even on religious sites I got sex messages, only they pretended they were looking for marriage and this was "after marriage".
At the bottom of her profile she was saying that don't send her any messages for sex requests because she is not on the site looking for a sex buddy because she has enough friends
So this stupid women is admitting that she has the option to have sex anytime she wants and preferred to find a guy to be in a relationship with?
I have seen it ALL now. LOL. Disgusting.com
Ummmm, wanting a real relationship over just a sexual partner means she's "stupid"?
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I dont see anything wrong with her message.
I think she just wants to have relationship and she tries to filter those guys who just want to have sex with her by saying "Look guys, if I want to have sex, I dont even need to post my profile here. I can pretty much get it easily"
Alot of women are frustrated since alot of guys in dating site seem to want to use them for sex, while they clearly state they only want to have relationship.
And if she can wants to have sex with so many men out there; so what? Not only guys who can have all the fun; girls can do that too.
I dont see anything wrong with her message.
I think she just wants to have relationship and she tries to filter those guys who just want to have sex with her by saying "Look guys, if I want to have sex, I dont even need to post my profile here. I can pretty much get it easily" Alot of women are frustrated since alot of guys in dating site seem to want to use them for sex, while they clearly state they only want to have relationship.
BINGO.
Not sure why this is such a difficult concept for the OP to grasp.
And the woman wasn't saying she IS sleeping with lots of men, she was saying if that is all she wanted she has lots of friends to choose from already.
She wants a guy interested in a real relationship - nothing "stupid" or wrong with that.
The op is complaining about that rather than this.
Still trying to understand why the fact that she COULD have sex with people she already knows if that is all she wanted (it's not, she said she wants a relationship) is somehow a problem?
Still trying to understand why the fact that she COULD have sex with people she already knows if that is all she wanted (it's not, she said she wants a relationship) is somehow a problem?
It just makes no sense to me...
Jealousy. Some people wouldn't mind having that option.
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