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Old 07-25-2013, 06:03 PM
 
Location: Wake County, NC
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It could mean she's just curious about where you live. Not everything that a girl says is cryptic or has some other underlying meaning. It could be she just wants to see where you live especially because it's new. Maybe she wants to have sex, or maybe she wants to know if you are good serious relationship material, or she is simply just curious about you and your choices.

If she wants sex, then you'll know when you get there. If she is scoping out serious relationship material, you can cross that bridge when you get to it...if you are not already there. But, take it at face value at this point and if you want her to see your new place, then just let her come over. Make it look nice and just expect conversation...be ready for more, but dont' expect more than conversation and a tour.
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Old 07-25-2013, 06:25 PM
 
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I moved into a new apartment and this one girl said "I have to come see your new place sometime." Is that a good sign if a girl is inviting herself over?
Man Im going to be honest with you, it's like a 50/50! You know women have game too. The key word is "sometime", which means she want you to pick the day she can come over, and it also means you don't have to rush to show it to her. Now if she would have said " I have to come see your new place" she would be meaning soon.
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Old 07-25-2013, 10:36 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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A girl wanting to see your place is ALWAYS A GOOD SIGN because it may lead to cuddling or making out or both.

Cuddling or Making out is kind of hard to do in a coffee shop LOL
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Old 07-25-2013, 10:38 PM
 
Location: southern california
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No not at all
means she plans to move in & quit job
It means bf #2 thinks her place is too small
U think I make this stuff up don't cha
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Old 07-25-2013, 10:45 PM
FBJ
 
Location: Tall Building down by the river
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No not at all
means she plans to move in & quit job
It means bf #2 thinks her place is too small
U think I make this stuff up don't cha


wouldn't surprise me one bit
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Old 07-25-2013, 10:49 PM
 
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I moved into a new apartment and this one girl said "I have to come see your new place sometime." Is that a good sign if a girl is inviting herself over?

Depending on the circumstances it could mean she was being nice. It could mean that she is inviting herself over so she can spend some time with you. It could mean she wants to "run into your friend".

Why not ask her why she wants to see your place instead of trying to guess what she is looking for.
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Old 07-26-2013, 12:39 AM
 
Location: Grand Rapids, MI
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Some people just read too much into things.
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Old 07-26-2013, 01:01 AM
 
Location: San Francisco
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I'm pretty sure there have been times when I've mentioned wanting to see someone's new digs, and I didn't a e any ulterior sexual motives.

She might be into you... Or she might be curious a out where you live. Or she might just want to hang out and this was a way to suggest spending some time together.
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Old 07-26-2013, 03:13 AM
 
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Depending on the circumstances it could mean she was being nice. It could mean that she is inviting herself over so she can spend some time with you. It could mean she wants to "run into your friend".

Why not ask her why she wants to see your place instead of trying to guess what she is looking for.
because dealing with women,,,men have to "guess"
the answers are pretty split on this,,,

here's my guess, he will finally get the nerve to ask her over,,she will say "great, me and my fiance will be over at 7"
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Old 07-26-2013, 03:17 AM
 
Location: socal baby
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fail... next time set it up clueless
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