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Old 07-26-2013, 01:15 PM
 
Location: somewhere in the Kona coffee fields
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Your apartment /room will be scrutinized either way. And reported back to others in details of being 'dateable material'. Meaning hygiene, hospitality, material wealth, and such.

In case you feel comfortable with the gal and your pad, DON'T APPROACH HER on that first visit! You can only win by being polite and organized. Meaning you can later on always tell with some credibility that you just had a (female) friend over, hung with one, without having sex.

That'll go a long way in a relationship. Having sex on her first visit, she would suspect you doing the same with any other female when the situation comes up.
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Old 07-26-2013, 01:53 PM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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It's a good sign. Just say yes. Forget about the cynics and misanthropes here.
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Old 07-26-2013, 01:54 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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Some people just read too much into things.
I agree. I wouldnt think to much about it. If she's really interested then she'll bring it up again.
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Old 07-26-2013, 02:07 PM
 
Location: Virginia
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I moved into a new apartment and this one girl said "I have to come see your new place sometime." Is that a good sign if a girl is inviting herself over?
Hell yeah it is a great sign.
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Old 07-29-2013, 12:11 PM
 
Location: NYC
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uhhm

take her there at night, either after a few drinks or have a few drinks there

you'll thank me later.

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A girl wanting to see your place is ALWAYS A GOOD SIGN because it may lead to cuddling or making out or both.

Cuddling or Making out is kind of hard to do in a coffee shop LOL
are you 12?
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Old 08-03-2013, 06:20 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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uhhm

take her there at night, either after a few drinks or have a few drinks there

you'll thank me later.



are you 12?

No just a "Foreplay Fanatic"
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Old 08-03-2013, 06:21 PM
 
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I moved into a new apartment and this one girl said "I have to come see your new place sometime." Is that a good sign if a girl is inviting herself over?
I thought you were one of those posters who knows what all women think?
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Old 08-03-2013, 07:12 PM
 
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Definitely good sign, or she's with a robbery gang.
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Old 08-04-2013, 02:49 AM
 
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You can waste a lot of time reading into what someone says. Maybe she was just being polite. Maybe she wants to be alone with you at your place.

No way of knowing.

Invite her over, buy some chinese food, insist on using chopsticks (in order to give dinner in a rented room in a basement a sense of adventure). It could turn out to be a nice dinner with a friend or it could lead to the squeeking of bed springs.

Bada boom bada bing.
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Old 08-04-2013, 03:10 AM
 
Location: Brooklyn, NY
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She wants the D!
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