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Originally Posted by SingleMommy40881
im sorry i should have been more clear i do want more just not NOW!! i wanna get financially stable first but he doesnt seem to think its a problem.
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Then be honest with him and set up specific goals. Like, I want to have a child with you, but I want us to be in a better financial position first. I want us to have xyz amount saved first, and I want us to be married. (Or whatever would make you feel comfortable and ready.)
Both of you should be ready to take this step. On the flip side of that, since you guys have already been together for 4-5 years, he may feel you're just dragging it out indefinitely. Having specific steps in place so it doesn't feel like such a moving target may help.