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Old 08-05-2013, 09:42 AM
 
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Woke up to this realization.

Scenario:

Husband's career takes off, he makes lots more money then has narcissistic midlife crisis, leaves loving and supportive wife to move in with a somewhat younger woman to live a new life of drama where he spends the next few years trying to kill himself to please her. Boats, cars, trips, second homes....

Abandoned wife, grieves the loss, rebuilds a new life, eventually finds a wonderful new relationship with man her own age, recovering from a similar life of loss, no ego issues, he's not wealthy by most standards, but works hard and together they feather a newer, simpler nest. They go on walks, bike rides, sharing wine and talks by the outdoor fireplace...they are content with a simple life.


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Old 08-05-2013, 10:39 AM
 
Location: Elsewhere
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Woke up to this realization.

Scenario:

Husband's career takes off, he makes lots more money then has narcissistic midlife crisis, leaves loving and supportive wife to move in with a somewhat younger woman to live a new life of drama where he spends the next few years trying to kill himself to please her. Boats, cars, trips, second homes....

Abandoned wife, grieves the loss, rebuilds a new life, eventually finds a wonderful new relationship with man her own age, recovering from a similar life of loss, no ego issues, he's not wealthy by most standards, but works hard and together they feather a newer, simpler nest. They go on walks, bike rides, sharing wine and talks by the outdoor fireplace...they are content with a simple life.


C
So, which of these people are you?
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Old 08-05-2013, 10:47 AM
 
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the happier ex-wife...
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Old 08-05-2013, 11:14 AM
 
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Woke up to this realization.

Scenario:

Husband's career takes off, he makes lots more money then has narcissistic midlife crisis, leaves loving and supportive wife to move in with a somewhat younger woman to live a new life of drama where he spends the next few years trying to kill himself to please her. Boats, cars, trips, second homes....

Abandoned wife, grieves the loss, rebuilds a new life, eventually finds a wonderful new relationship with man her own age, recovering from a similar life of loss, no ego issues, he's not wealthy by most standards, but works hard and together they feather a newer, simpler nest. They go on walks, bike rides, sharing wine and talks by the outdoor fireplace...they are content with a simple life.


C
Ooooooooo Kaaaaaay!?


Is there a moral to the story?

Is the ex coming back to beg for forgiveness so he can come back?

Where's the story here???
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Old 08-05-2013, 11:45 AM
 
Location: NY
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Glad you found a satisfying relationship at a speed you appreciate!
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Old 08-05-2013, 11:55 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Woke up to this realization.

Scenario:

Husband's career takes off, he makes lots more money then has narcissistic midlife crisis, leaves loving and supportive wife to move in with a somewhat younger woman to live a new life of drama where he spends the next few years trying to kill himself to please her. Boats, cars, trips, second homes....

Abandoned wife, grieves the loss, rebuilds a new life, eventually finds a wonderful new relationship with man her own age, recovering from a similar life of loss, no ego issues, he's not wealthy by most standards, but works hard and together they feather a newer, simpler nest. They go on walks, bike rides, sharing wine and talks by the outdoor fireplace...they are content with a simple life.
This just proves that money isn't everything, and that women do better when they go for character and personality, than earning power.
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Old 08-05-2013, 12:16 PM
 
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A simple life is more relaxing and conducive to contentment far as I'm concerned...Glad you found that out, and can share it with someone you love...wealth is definitely not necessary for happiness.
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Old 08-05-2013, 12:18 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Woke up to this realization.

Scenario:

Husband's career takes off, he makes lots more money then has narcissistic midlife crisis, leaves loving and supportive wife to move in with a somewhat younger woman to live a new life of drama where he spends the next few years trying to kill himself to please her. Boats, cars, trips, second homes....

Abandoned wife, grieves the loss, rebuilds a new life, eventually finds a wonderful new relationship with man her own age, recovering from a similar life of loss, no ego issues, he's not wealthy by most standards, but works hard and together they feather a newer, simpler nest. They go on walks, bike rides, sharing wine and talks by the outdoor fireplace...they are content with a simple life.


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This has been the plot of lots of movies over the years, including 1978's "An Unmarried Woman" starring Jill Clayburgh.

What's your point?
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Old 08-05-2013, 12:26 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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What is your question?

If you found a new, sincere guy, why are you still spying on the ex?
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Old 08-05-2013, 01:36 PM
 
Location: Gaston, South Carolina
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If you guys are missing her point, you might want to read her post a little more slowly this time. To the OP, so glad you found your happiness adn moved on! Hope your ex is broke and dejected somewhere!
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