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Old 08-19-2013, 07:48 PM
 
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Wow. Just wow.

Germany? Scandinavia? Just curious.
I vote Vatican City
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Old 08-19-2013, 07:57 PM
 
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If you are for real, then I have extreme pity for you because someone somewhere really did a number on your head
Who do you mean by "someone"? I'm able to see with my own eyes.
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Old 08-19-2013, 07:58 PM
 
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I vote Vatican City
I guess Italy is a possibility.

Have you talked to your mother or father about this, OP?
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Old 08-19-2013, 07:58 PM
 
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look into voluntary chemical castration. Probably going to plummet your t levels though. not going to be much of an athlete with low t, and sex desire is a product of high testosterone. quite the pickle you are in.
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Old 08-19-2013, 08:02 PM
 
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Wow. Just wow.
How much longer do you have in your MA program? Maybe you only have 1 year left to go. You can manage to discipline and focus your mind for 1 year. Take up meditation. It helps you learn to focus your attention on whatever you want, and tune out extraneous thoughts.
I've got two more years. My meditation is going to the beach.

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Have you talked to your mother or father about this, OP?
I would never discuss such personal topics with my parents. What difference would it make? It's none of their business.
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Old 08-19-2013, 08:06 PM
 
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I would never discuss such personal topics with my parents. What difference would it make? It's none of their business.
They've gone through this stage, especially your father. He might have some helpful suggestions. Maybe you have an uncle or an older brother or cousin you could talk to, if not your father.
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Old 08-19-2013, 08:08 PM
 
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I've got two more years. My meditation is going to the beach.
If it's not helping you, you're not doing it right. Look up some meditation instruction videos on the internet. Practice daily. It takes time to discipline the mind and tune out wandering thoughts. But the better you become at it, the more you can apply it to your daily life, and stay focussed on your studies.
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Old 08-19-2013, 08:08 PM
 
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I've got two more years. My meditation is going to the beach.



I would never discuss such personal topics with my parents. What difference would it make? It's none of their business.
Walking meditation?

Oh, and one tip I have for not thinking about girls is to imagine something visually dynamic, like ...


A leaf changing colors
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Old 08-19-2013, 08:15 PM
 
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They've gone through this stage, especially your father. He might have some helpful suggestions. Maybe you have an uncle or an older brother or cousin you could talk to, if not your father.
My father is more worried about his mistresses, I'm probably the last thought on his mind. Besides, I could never have such a talk with him, I would never be at ease. He's not someone you can approach.

I've elder brothers but again, they would probably laugh and say something like "get real and stop being a wimp".
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Old 08-19-2013, 08:18 PM
 
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My father is more worried about his mistresses, I'm probably the last thought on his mind. Besides, I could never have such a talk with him, I would never be at ease. He's not someone you can approach.

I've elder brothers but again, they would probably laugh and say something like "get real and stop being a wimp".
Get real and stop being a wimp, boy!
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