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Old 08-21-2013, 06:02 PM
 
Location: NoVa
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I love how these people wanna give their anecdotal examples in an effort to disprove my statement. "I'm friends with the opposite sex. So it must mean that men and women can have a problem free, platonic relationship." Somehow you completely overlook the fact that the vast majority of men and women don't have friends of the opposite sex. They don't have it because they don't wanna b.s. about it.

Of course, those posters who are friends with the opposite sex are going to say it's impossible that one or both parties harbors lust for the other one. They won't blatantly admit it because it would just bring out the fact that their relationship is a sham and it isn't platonic. They have nothing to gain by admitting it.
Look, just like I said, I have mostly all men friends. If they harbor lust for me they haven't said anything about it!

Well, only one has, and another one told me about it 20 years later....lol.

But truthfully, I am in a happy relationship and these people are just that, friends.

I do not harbor any lustful feelings towards any of my male friends.

Where do you come up with this stuff?

Do you realize how much easier it is for a woman to be friends with a man? Men complain about all the drama involved with women and how much they nag, etc, etc. Well don't you think they pile their endless drama on their female friends?!?!?

It is no fun and I don't like it. I don't like ******y women who think they know everything there is to know about everything and go on and on about it.

It gets old. Fast. I have one woman friend who does not do that and she is a lesbian. Come to think of it, I think she for sure harbors lustful feelings towards me.
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Old 08-21-2013, 06:03 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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I have a large group of friends, both male and female, and we haven't all slept with each other.... so I have no idea what you're talking about.

In fact, if a guy doesn't have at least one female friend I consider that a red flag because that usually means he only views women as walking vaginas and not actual people.

Bu...bu...but..........he must want to sleep with his one female friend!

Be realistic, Jet. Deluded doesn't suit you.


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Old 08-21-2013, 06:05 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Bu...bu...but..........he must want to sleep with his one female friend!

Be realistic, Jet. Deluded doesn't suit you.


My bad.

Dudes only keep women around because they might be able to sleep with them.

Actually, I do believe this is true for a large portion of men, but the ones who aren't like that are the ones you want to keep around
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Old 08-21-2013, 06:26 PM
 
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I had a girl call me "bro" and I was in her friend zone. I'm guessing that the term is reserved for friendzoned dudes.
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Old 08-21-2013, 06:31 PM
 
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I had a girl call me "bro" and I was in her friend zone. I'm guessing that the term is reserved for friendzoned dudes.
I had a girl call me "bro" and I was her brother.
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Old 08-21-2013, 06:33 PM
 
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Old 08-21-2013, 06:41 PM
 
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I guess I thought you were capable of mature conversation. My bad.
I started drinking some Moosehead during the last two posts in this thread. Mature convos are impossible for me at this point.
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Old 08-21-2013, 07:16 PM
 
Location: Way up high
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Negative bro
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Old 08-21-2013, 07:29 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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I started drinking some Moosehead during the last two posts in this thread. Mature convos are impossible for me at this point.

TheBigGuy is a Canuck!


I hang my head in shame for all my fellow countrymen.
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Old 08-21-2013, 07:30 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Negative bro
You slept with the OP?
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