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Old 08-28-2013, 05:21 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Why make a simple request so complicated? He said - call me tomorrow, and that what he meant. There is no reason for an analysis...
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Old 08-28-2013, 06:07 AM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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I guess you'll find out what his intentions are when you call him back tomorrow.
If you had an amicable conversation on the phone for 30 minutes with the guy and he asked you to call back tomorrow why are you reading rejection into this?
I would read rejection into it b/c I would expect that he'd be the one to call. He may be semi-interested but not not enough to put much effort into it and this is why most women expect men to do the calling--b/c if we have to be the ones to call then they're probably not interested. Now if he had called and then asked her to call tomorrow it might be different.
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Old 08-28-2013, 06:11 AM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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If a girl calls a guy and they talk for about 30 minutes and then the guy says "If you want to talk more, call me tomorrow." Is this a man's way of turning down a woman politely?
No. If he wasn't interested in you he wouldn't have talked to you for 30 minutes and wouldn't be offering to talk to you tomorrow.
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Old 08-28-2013, 06:14 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Thank God every man has exactly the same motivations in everything he does so that we can accurately analyze the simplest statement he makes.
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Old 08-28-2013, 06:14 AM
 
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Why make a simple request so complicated? He said - call me tomorrow, and that what he meant. There is no reason for an analysis...
I agree!
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Old 08-28-2013, 06:22 AM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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Thank God every man has exactly the same motivations in everything he does so that we can accurately analyze the simplest statement he makes.
Well, short of some bizarre ulterior motive, people don't generally waste time talking on the phone to people they're not interested in. This is fairly straightforward.
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Old 08-28-2013, 06:41 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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Well, short of some bizarre ulterior motive, people don't generally waste time talking on the phone to people they're not interested in. This is fairly straightforward.
People don't generally stay on the 'phone if they have a business meeting to attend ... that's fairly straightforward.
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Old 08-28-2013, 06:41 AM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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He told me had something else to do because he has a business meeting.
I understand why do you have to ask this question, you probably really like this guy.
If you analyze his words all the time, this relationship is going to be very tiring for you. Not fair to you, not fair to him.

He said, ".. I have a business meeting." Just take his words for it.

Good luck to you and I hope everything works out between the two of you.
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Old 08-28-2013, 06:56 AM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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People don't generally stay on the 'phone if they have a business meeting to attend ... that's fairly straightforward.
That too. I figured that went without saying.
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Old 08-28-2013, 06:58 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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There's only one way to find out, and that's to call 2moro. If you go unanswered....well, you'll know.
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