An offer you can refuse? (guy, cheating, straight, boys)
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Do some googling about BDSM before he gets to your house. Learn how to spot a person who plays safely and one who doesn't. Learn what stuff you two need to discuss verbally before you start.
If he's not cool with that, then your intuition is right: Don't do it.
Also, consider having him 'go first'. This time you handcuff him. Next time, we'll see.
Really I do not think this is something anyone should do without a lot of research and discussion first, for safety reasons. How well do you know this guy?
Well he's been and gone and the cynics are right, there's no pictures and it didn't happen.
No I mean, it really didn't happen.
He walked in with all this black strapping stuff and I'm all like "guide dog harness"
Anyway no BDSM just straight old ordinary, I think that sort of kink is ok when you're getting bored with someone but when you're only occasional lovers, you just don't need the frills.
Plain pack, generic, vanilla (hehe) 50 shades of ordinary.
Well he's been and gone and the cynics are right, there's no pictures and it didn't happen.
No I mean, it really didn't happen.
He walked in with all this black strapping stuff and I'm all like "guide dog harness"
Anyway no BDSM just straight old ordinary, I think that sort of kink is ok when you're getting bored with someone but when you're only occasional lovers, you just don't need the frills.
Plain pack, generic, vanilla (hehe) 50 shades of ordinary.
JMHO, tough guys REALLY don't want to hurt you. We really don't....don't make us or force us to.
It's not fun.
Do you know how hard a man can/could punch or slap you?
"Most" violence towards women is provoked. 10-10........
"Most" not "all" men know what kind of damage they can do, even just playing around.
Suppose he finds it arousing to choke you.
How hard is too hard?
Any is too hard if he's a strong guy.
Is Chris benoit going to have to choke a *****.
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