unhappy unmarried! should i just leave!!! (marriage, man, love, kiss)

[sammyiam]

I love this man but he won't marry me after 6 years and 2 kids. He just want to party and just assumes the kids are my problem to deal with. Tired of the drinking everyday. Errr! I even took care of his mom while she was dying. I was even there when she passed. I did love her very much. Really tought he would come around on the marrage thing after all we have been through. Tired of the selfish things he does. Making plans then tells me just before it happens. I let him come and go as he pleases. Give he space. He keeps saying if he doesn't get it from me he will go somewhere else. Makes me worry. What to do.. help

[charmed hour]

Leave, you and your children are clearly not his priority.

[LostMyself73]

Cut your losses and move on. He's not a good life partner and you've allowed him to treat you this way if you care about your children you need to stop this behavior and treat yourself better. Good luck

[NilaJones]

Yes, the kids will be much better off if they grow up seeing you not putting up with cr*p.

[carnivalday]

Why should he marry you? He's already got free sex, maid service, and daycare for his kids, while he goes and parties.

[SloRoller]

If you have to ask, you already know what you need to do.

[spencgr]

Originally Posted by sammyiam

I love this man

Why??? Give us any good reason......

[Oleg Bach]

This is not a man this is a boy...let him figure out the hard way what life is really about.

[pacific2]

He's just using you as a doormat. Don't take it. You deserve better, and your children deserve to look up to a mother who will not let herself be abused.

[Irishiis49]

Why did you have two children in six years without being married to this man(if marriage was what you wanted)? Of course leave him...why did you stay with someone who doesn't value you or your children for so long? Your children deserve better...