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But that's not the same as being honest with your past. Who cares if you mentioned "that guy"? I doubt the people you were with thought you were a virgin before them. So the acknowledgement that there was someone else is not shocking. But it's also different from saying "there were 30 guys before you. Just wanted to let you know. Wanna kiss?" See, by "being completely open with my sexual past," you mean "I implied there were other people," not "I actually am completely open with my sexual past."
Well most women know this that's why they lie about it. It is what it is
Idk why some one in their late 30's early 40's would even contemplate asking anyone about their number of sexual partners. I agree its a 20's fascination.
thank goodness...
it's only important if you aren't getting any regularly of haven't had multiple SOs. for me, when it comes up, i have no problem saying, "I think i've had at least one new sexual partner each year since i graduated from high school, which is [normal, average, whatever] i think for anyone who isn't married right?? anyway, you do the math".
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Idk why some one in their late 30's early 40's would even contemplate asking anyone about their number of sexual partners. I agree its a 20's fascination.
They wouldn't unless they had a desire to be slapped or at least walked out on!
Do you mean you know your female friend's numbers? Or their boyfriends know their numbers?
Some of my best friends are male (I've literally gone out with them every weekend since I was 19) and some of them are female. I know who they bring home. Some of them I have also lived with.
Some of my best friends are male (I've literally gone out with them every weekend since I was 19) and some of them are female. I know who they bring home. Some of them I have also lived with.
OK, so do you mean you know your friends' numbers or that THE PERSON they are going out with, regardless of whether it is a man or woman or indeterminate gender, knows their number?
OK, so do you mean you know your friends' numbers or that THE PERSON they are going out with, regardless of whether it is a man or woman or indeterminate gender, knows their number?
Both, most of my friends have been with their SOs for years. In most cases they have broken up and gotten back together. I am friends with all of them and hang out with all of them. I know all of their numbers and they know each others as well.
Either way, someone will spill the beans eventually over drinks, so might as well lay it out beforehand. Everyone's numbers (whether high or low) are a running joke most of the time.
The bottom range represents the age at which women have been cumulatively approached by men and know their max attractiveness. Before that, it's still developing.
At 33, the bio-clock is ticking, so they may make concessions they wouldn't have several years ago.
If a woman is more attractive and starts dating earlier, it shifts the age range down.
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