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Old 10-16-2013, 10:53 PM
 
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Why would a guy reject a girl but say it's not really true that she's not his type?

Why would he reject her, then later on deny that he did, saying that he doesn't remember rejecting her?
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Old 10-16-2013, 10:56 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Are all of your threads about the same guy?
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Old 10-16-2013, 11:19 PM
 
Location: Indiana
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Why would a guy reject a girl but say it's not really true that she's not his type?

Why would he reject her, then later on deny that he did, saying that he doesn't remember rejecting her?
What? We're not all the same. Also this is way too specific sounding to come to any good conclusions.

I'm a blunt and honest person I wouldn't do either of those things, but some people might.
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Old 10-16-2013, 11:20 PM
 
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87% of men would reject her if he didn't like her. 12% of men would reject her and deny that he rejected her. 1% would tell you exactly why he is going to reject you.
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Old 10-17-2013, 01:36 AM
 
Location: The Emerald City
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Because most of us guys arnt thst cruel to say hurtful reason like that to a gals face, so we sugar coat it.

I wasn't attracted to my ex of 5 years from day one but I got blinded by love and companionship and the guilty side of me kept me from saying that to her face when we did find break up years later for other reasons.

Sometimes, the full truth just isn't worth the heart break, so you just leave it out and cover it up with a less painful reason.

Case in point, from that lesson, if I simply have no attraction or chemistry towards a gal, I state I'm not interested or I feel we would not work well together and leave it at that
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Old 10-17-2013, 03:15 AM
 
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wouldnt you want to hear it up front,,,than later, deeper in a relationship?


how do so many men reject women, when half of men cant even approach a woman?
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Old 10-17-2013, 03:25 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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who knows for sure, but the guy making that statement.
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Old 10-17-2013, 04:33 AM
 
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saying that he doesn't remember rejecting her?
What? He doesn't even remember it? Lol.
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Old 10-17-2013, 05:17 AM
 
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Why would a guy reject a girl but say it's not really true that she's not his type?

Why would he reject her, then later on deny that he did, saying that he doesn't remember rejecting her?
How about you stop asking total strangers on a forum what some dude thinks every time he opens his mouth. How about you just ask HIM.
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Old 10-17-2013, 05:48 AM
 
Location: In bucolic TN
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With such fragmentary, iconic recall of the interaction, I can merely concur with the others that the OP should not return to the fellow in question but should start fresh, new, and get a better feeling for someone before moving to Stage II in the relationship. Does this person really sound like friendship material, if they cannot recall or can't be up-front with how they feel? Can you imagine moving into the future, second guessing them or yourself, because you stand on a wavering foundation -
'I never said that.'
'Sure you did.' <did I really hear them say that or am I imagining a conversation with them?>

Yeah, find greater maturity and personal integrity.
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