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87% of men would reject her if he didn't like her. 12% of men would reject her and deny that he rejected her. 1% would tell you exactly why he is going to reject you.
Because most of us guys arnt thst cruel to say hurtful reason like that to a gals face, so we sugar coat it.
I wasn't attracted to my ex of 5 years from day one but I got blinded by love and companionship and the guilty side of me kept me from saying that to her face when we did find break up years later for other reasons.
Sometimes, the full truth just isn't worth the heart break, so you just leave it out and cover it up with a less painful reason.
Case in point, from that lesson, if I simply have no attraction or chemistry towards a gal, I state I'm not interested or I feel we would not work well together and leave it at that
With such fragmentary, iconic recall of the interaction, I can merely concur with the others that the OP should not return to the fellow in question but should start fresh, new, and get a better feeling for someone before moving to Stage II in the relationship. Does this person really sound like friendship material, if they cannot recall or can't be up-front with how they feel? Can you imagine moving into the future, second guessing them or yourself, because you stand on a wavering foundation -
'I never said that.'
'Sure you did.' <did I really hear them say that or am I imagining a conversation with them?>
Yeah, find greater maturity and personal integrity.
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