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I have said those words at the mixer, "It's been nice chatting, excuse me." And I walk away and turn my back from them the rest of the night. This one creep followed me around the room and actually asked for my number. I told him I did not want to exchange numbers. Then he proceeded to find my profile on Meet-up and send MULTIPLE MESSAGES, even after I told him I wasn't interested!
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Do remember that some guys are more persistent than others and won't quit on trying to hit it with you. The solution is not to get mean about immediately but continue being polite about it and keep saying you're not interested. Be a little bit more firm maybe or do a total disappearing act after you have made it clear to him.
Once upon a time, women weren't so quick to creepstamp a guy who was persistent in trying to talk. It was called wooing at one time. I can take a hint but I'm definitely a lot more careful about who I approach. Harrassment comes next and her word usually has a lot more carrying power against a guys word.
Co*k-blocking usually works, especially when you have more than one wingwoman to help you get rid of the guy.
Do remember that some guys are more persistent than others and won't quit on trying to hit it with you. The solution is not to get mean about immediately but continue being polite about it and keep saying you're not interested. Be a little bit more firm maybe or do a total disappearing act after you have made it clear to him.
Once upon a time, women weren't so quick to creepstamp a guy who was persistent in trying to talk. It was called wooing at one time. I can take a hint but I'm definitely a lot more careful about who I approach. Harrassment comes next and her word usually has a lot more carrying power against a guys word.
Co*k-blocking usually works, especially when you have more than one wingwoman
Lol you want to know the real definition of creep or creepy? Its unattractive lol. If it was the perfect 10 doing the same behaviors then its acceptable or ok lol. If a guy is persistent but unattractive its harrasment. But if he is attractive its confidence
After a few decades of this you sort of get totally beyond it all.
For example, I had some creep hit on me on the weekend. I was at the club minding my own business and he came and sat down and started talking. Anyway I just tried to ignore him, playing on my phone, he was drunk and fugly and just gross. My friend came back then he started talking to her about me. He said something like "I think she's getting annoyed" because I was still playing my solitaire just wishing he would go away.
I said to him, not yet but im getting there. You would think this would be enough but no.
Richard Cranium still didn't get the hint so I got up and went back inside. Just walked off and left him to it, right in mid sentence about how he found me quite rude playing my phone when he was trying to chat me up.
After a few decades of this you sort of get totally beyond it all.
For example, I had some creep hit on me on the weekend. I was at the club minding my own business and he came and sat down and started talking. Anyway I just tried to ignore him, playing on my phone, he was drunk and fugly and just gross. My friend came back then he started talking to her about me. He said something like "I think she's getting annoyed" because I was still playing my solitaire just wishing he would go away.
I said to him, not yet but im getting there. You would think this would be enough but no.
Richard Cranium still didn't get the hint so I got up and went back inside. Just walked off and left him to it, right in mid sentence about how he found me quite rude playing my phone when he was trying to chat me up.
The care factor was lower than zero.
But the same rude behavior(s) would of been ok if he wasnt fugly right? lets say if he was a nine on your scale?
After a few decades of this you sort of get totally beyond it all.
For example, I had some creep hit on me on the weekend. I was at the club minding my own business and he came and sat down and started talking. Anyway I just tried to ignore him, playing on my phone, he was drunk and fugly and just gross. My friend came back then he started talking to her about me. He said something like "I think she's getting annoyed" because I was still playing my solitaire just wishing he would go away.
I said to him, not yet but im getting there. You would think this would be enough but no.
Richard Cranium still didn't get the hint so I got up and went back inside. Just walked off and left him to it, right in mid sentence about how he found me quite rude playing my phone when he was trying to chat me up.
The care factor was lower than zero.
exhibit a that if youre ugly and hit on a women chances are good youll be called a creep for approaching
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Originally Posted by shortnblack
Once upon a time, women weren't so quick to creepstamp a guy who was persistent in trying to talk. It was called wooing at one time. I can take a hint but I'm definitely a lot more careful about who I approach. Harrassment comes next and her word usually has a lot more carrying power against a guys word.
True. My brother pursued his now wife for a solid year before she warmed up to him. She told her friends that she thought he was arrogant (that was the nice way of putting it). Well, now married 15 years with 2 kids.
exhibit a that if youre ugly and hit on a women chances are good youll be called a creep for approaching
I wouldn't care if he was George Clooney.
He was rude, insensitive, and invading my space.
He was also rolling drunk.
If he hadn't been so disrespectful, rude and bleary eyed, I would probably have enjoyed talking to him and perhaps even been charmed by him enough to be persuaded to have a date with him.
But guess what? He was disrespectful, rude and bleary eyed so he didn't even get asked to sit down.
It's his behaviour that labels him a creep, not his looks.
It's his behaviour that labels him a creep, not his looks.
Completely agree with you!!
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