Giving stuff back after a nasty breakup (how to, clothes, mature)
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Meh, drop at her door, dont say a word, dont look in her house, dont make drama. Walk off. If you feel you MUST say something say "heres your stuff drop me a line if I missed anything"
I had a girlfriend for all of two weeks before things ended. How do I know things ended? She's stopped talking to me, and she's active on the online dating sites. However, I still have some items of her's that I need to get back to her. What's the best way to do this? Should I just leave it at her door, or should I confront her in person? I'm not bitter about it, and I don't have any hung-up feelings for her; I do take issue with how childish she handled things, but if she doesn't want to be with me that's her loss.
I'd mail it to her and stay as impersonal as I could about it.
I had a girlfriend for all of two weeks before things ended. How do I know things ended? She's stopped talking to me, and she's active on the online dating sites. However, I still have some items of her's that I need to get back to her. What's the best way to do this? Should I just leave it at her door, or should I confront her in person? I'm not bitter about it, and I don't have any hung-up feelings for her; I do take issue with how childish she handled things, but if she doesn't want to be with me that's her loss.
1 - How is she your girlfriend if you only dated two weeks?
2 - How can you have a nasty breakup if you've barely had any time to become emotionally invested in the "relationship"?
Meh, drop at her door, dont say a word, dont look in her house, dont make drama. Walk off. If you feel you MUST say something say "heres your stuff drop me a line if I missed anything"
I did this to a guy I saw for years. Just dumped it on the front porch and left. The next day there was a knock on my door with a sherrif's agent serving me with papers for stalking. Of course the judge thought it was a friggin' joke and I stated I didn't believe the court of law was established to help make it easier for someone to break up with someone when a phone call would suffice - he just didn't want to finalize it. In fact this jacknut actually called me a year later to try again - fat friggin chance. I mean it was painfully obvious by dumping his stuff off I was done with him I didn't need a judge to decide that. He just wanted the last word.
My suggestion is to take a Polaroid of what you left and how you left it. Or just stay the hell away from her house completely.
I would not stress about it. Throw the stuff in a box in your closet for a while. If you never hear from her again. Pitch it. If you do, give it back. Big deal.
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