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Old 10-30-2013, 09:04 PM
 
Location: Charlotte, NC
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Some people have a serious addiction to pornography. I don't know if he has that particular issue, but that is something to keep in mind. Have you ever had a serious talk and asked him why he watches it so much?
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Old 10-30-2013, 09:09 PM
 
Location: Riverside Ca
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Jesus watching porn every day? Wtf ? Sounds like a addiction to me. Are you guys having sex?
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Old 11-02-2013, 08:44 AM
 
Location: Elsewhere
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I've been dating my bf for 10 months now. We have a lots of issues lately. He's not really a romantic type of guys but he's nice. So I guess that's all it matters. All these fights were simply about how I want more attention & more caring. I guess I'm not really a good talking person, we always end up in an argument. He has this bad habit about he really likes watching porno everyday. I caught him a few times. At first seem ok but now I felt annoyed. I told him I felt uncomfortable, he said he'll changed. But I still caught him.

Another problems, he is such a sister boy. He worships his sister so much. Basically things she said, doesn't matter what, he immediately took her advices. Sometimes it's so wrong but he doesn't see it.


I like him. But it's annoyed me a lot because I expect more in this relationship, he's either pretend or really don't know

What should I do? We broke up many times, we are still together now. I want to work things out, how?
Why exactly do you want to work things out with someone like this? It's obvious he isn't as interested in the relationship as you are. You can't magically make things work with someone who doesn't want it. There's no "how". You either take it as it is, or leave. Those are your choices. Simple and clear.
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Old 11-02-2013, 08:56 AM
 
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I don't understand much. He's not romantic but nice, so you "guess" that's all that matters. That's not a lot of info.
A "sister boy"? I've never heard of that. You don't elaborate on this worship, so how does this fit in. I've been accused of being too close to my sister, but I think it's absurd that it would affect my relationship, there's nothing wrong with it IMO. What about it? You give no concrete evidence. Maybe he goes to her because he can't talk to you? We have no way of knowing.

There's a lot of lack of info in your post.

You expect more. More what? In what way? What is he not giving? Sex?
You broke up many times? I feel if I keep breaking up with someone, what's the point? Fix it or forget it!
He's pretend? Pretend what?
This is all such a mess. You are all over the place here.
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Old 11-02-2013, 09:10 AM
 
Location: In The Thin Air
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Want to turn him off from porn? Have him watch two girls one cup. If he actually enjoys it run away as fast as you can.
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Old 11-02-2013, 09:59 PM
 
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Believe or not believe? I found this purse inside my boyfriend's truck. He stole it, intended to give to his dad who will leave to Mexico on Wednesday. What a mess? How should I deal with this? We live together, I trust him. As much chances I gave us, he proved me wrong. I'm disappointed. If I never find out.. I would have lost my handbag ....
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Old 11-02-2013, 10:04 PM
 
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Originally Posted by SizzleHeart View Post
I've been dating my bf for 10 months now. We have a lots of issues lately. He's not really a romantic type of guys but he's nice. So I guess that's all it matters. All these fights were simply about how I want more attention & more caring. I guess I'm not really a good talking person, we always end up in an argument. He has this bad habit about he really likes watching porno everyday. I caught him a few times. At first seem ok but now I felt annoyed. I told him I felt uncomfortable, he said he'll changed. But I still caught him.

Another problems, he is such a sister boy. He worships his sister so much. Basically things she said, doesn't matter what, he immediately took her advices. Sometimes it's so wrong but he doesn't see it.


I like him. But it's annoyed me a lot because I expect more in this relationship, he's either pretend or really don't know

What should I do? We broke up many times, we are still together now. I want to work things out, how?
Sounds like you want things on your terms.

This guy won't change. He will continue to view porn and give you no affection.

Move on to someone that will love and respect your feelings.
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Old 11-02-2013, 10:06 PM
 
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Jesus watching porn every day? Wtf ? Sounds like a addiction to me. Are you guys having sex?
Jesus watches porn??
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Old 11-02-2013, 11:04 PM
 
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Believe or not believe? I found this purse inside my boyfriend's truck. He stole it, intended to give to his dad who will leave to Mexico on Wednesday. What a mess? How should I deal with this? We live together, I trust him. As much chances I gave us, he proved me wrong. I'm disappointed. If I never find out.. I would have lost my handbag ....

he asked for a chance. I never wanted to break up but I felt like i gave him so many chances. What should I do??
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Old 11-03-2013, 04:35 PM
 
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we broke up ... i can't trust anymore ... peace at last ... hopefully he doesn't "steal" anything in the house.
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